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I'm willing to bed dollars to doughnuts that you'll either hear or get the feeling of this guy has never been approached by a woman before, with the facial expressions they have on there face or the way they speak..
Lol yes.
And sadly, as things continue, their behavior gets even weirder. They never quite adjust. It's depressing actually.
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Originally Posted by foclampt
Geez, I wish I lived by you just so I could go do something fun with you and get you out of your sad headspace, Princefrog, I don't care what you look like, I just would like to see you happy for once.
I think that in my current situation, if a woman approached me with romantic intentions, I'd completely blow her out or go nuclear rejection on her and make a big scene...call her creepy and the like.
Sadistic? Yeah, maybe...but it would be a cool way to score one for the boys.
You're not actually scoring anything for anyone. There is no "the boys". It's you being an ass, and purposely hurting someone because you enjoy being a jerk.
Obviously you have not read the entire thread. I have not approached a woman in 3+ years, and that was only one which wound up as a relationship. Previous to that was probably another 3 years since I had approached. So actually, I'm batting 1000 with my approaches from the last 6 years.
This does not change the fact one bit that women have it easier in dating.
Sorry.
Oh for gosh sakes, grow up. In general I agree with you that when speaking in a broad context women have it easier in dating. Some women have it easier than others, some MEN have it easier than some women....
Thus is all of life, in all scenarios, with both genders, and all races. No one was guaranteed fairness in all things in life.
Part of adulthood is understanding that and handling it with grace.
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You're not actually scoring anything for anyone. There is no "the boys". It's you being an ass, and purposely hurting someone because you enjoy being a jerk.
Oh for gosh sakes, grow up. In general I agree with you that when speaking in a broad context women have it easier in dating. Some women have it easier than others, some MEN have it easier than some women....
Thus is all of life, in all scenarios, with both genders, and all races. No one was guaranteed fairness in all things in life.
Part of adulthood is understanding that and handling it with grace.
No doubt. I don't always like losing to a loser guy either, but that is life as well. That's what she wants and that's what she's attracted too. Nothing I can do or say to change her mind. You have to get glad the same way you got sad. When you have a crappy attitude, it makes it worse for anyone else out there actually trying.
I need all the help I can get, since I'm not a flashy dater.
So you would do that to someone who showed genuine interest, just to prove some sort of point, even though *I* and many, many, many other women (especially those of us who are shy/socially awkward) have never gone "nuclear" on a man showing interest in us?
And this helps you with women......how?
He's one of those people who have to make others feel bad, so he can feel good about himself.
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No doubt. I don't always like losing to a loser guy either, but that is life as well. That's what she wants and that's what she's attracted too. Nothing I can do or say to change her mind. You have to get glad the same way you got sad. When you have a crappy attitude, it makes it worse for anyone else out there actually trying.
I need all the help I can get, since I'm not a flashy dater.
You seem like a reasonable guy, or more aptly, a reasonable person.
We all have to deal with "wins" and "losses" in life, and play with the cards we've been dealt.
If you need a reference, I'm sure some of the women at CD can throw out a couple good words.
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