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View Poll Results: Would you be a sugar daddy, giving up a more loving, committed relationship for fresh meat?
Yes 36 30.00%
No 84 70.00%
Voters: 120. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-24-2013, 09:11 PM
 
Location: socal
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I've been a camgirl, and had a lot of repeat guys very interested and adoring of me. I pretended to like them a lot. But it was all an act. Inside I was thinking of how ugly and old this guy is, and what a nasty pervert he is. I'm sure a lot of other sex trade girls are thinking the same thing. So men, when you think of how fine and dandy your time with a hoe was, do be aware it was not real, and she would certainly not be acting the same if you were broke.

@ You guys who complain about your wives having lost their sex drive--the key to a lasting relationship is to keep things as fresh and spicy as in the beginning. Change routines. Look sexy for her. Let her know you want to be with her. Of course, she should not be letting go of herself either. My man doesn't shave for like a week, until he has a job interview or something. I find him much more attractive when he showers and maintains hygiene. I tell him this, yet he ignores me. Are you men doing this too? No woman wants to get with a man who smells like ballsweat. And are you fat and lazy? Get out there! Exercise! Eat healthy, read ingredient labels. No woman wants to have hot sex with a lazy old bozo. Unless she's being paid well!
So you were a camgirl and you're criticizing sugarbabies? Don't pretend like one form of adultwork is more superior or moral than the other. Before you tell everyone male or female how to live their lives, realize that you are the one who is choosing to stick with this loser that you seem repulsed by.
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Old 02-24-2013, 09:13 PM
 
Location: southern california
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sure i would and have but i have found that the job pays lousy huge cost overruns and a real problem with non delivery for prepayment.
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Old 02-24-2013, 09:18 PM
 
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So you were a camgirl and you're criticizing sugarbabies? Don't pretend like one form of adultwork is more superior or moral than the other. Before you tell everyone male or female how to live their lives, realize that you are the one who is choosing to stick with this loser that you seem repulsed by.
No kidding! Strippers are generally very critical of escorts and sugarbabies too but the objections become painfully transparent very quickly. The escort actually does what a stripper only offers as illusion. It is like the difference between actually buying and driving a Ferrari, and going to a used car lot. Strippers are all about getting in your head.

Women who have worked the low end are also very critical of the high end. The only women that I've met who can offer an objective viewpoint are those who have been in both worlds, and of course those who work the high end exclusively.
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Old 02-24-2013, 10:40 PM
 
Location: USA
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If given the chance would you pay a younger female to be at your beck and call?
I kind of like someone who likes me for me. Having a sugar baby is paying someone to be with you..Never been that desperate before
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Old 02-24-2013, 10:45 PM
 
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I kind of like someone who likes me for me. Having a sugar baby is paying someone to be with you..Never been that desperate before
It isn't about being desperate. It is about what you want.

Desperate is going to a massage parlor.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:23 PM
 
Location: Mohave Valley, AZ
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It isn't about being desperate. It is about what you want.

Desperate is going to a massage parlor.
But this is what you have:

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I try to see her twice a month for a weekend. Sometimes we do one-nighters if I don't have the cash.
So...that seems pretty desperate to me.

And, as much as you'd like us to believe that you're swimming in wealth, you don't always have the cash.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:32 PM
 
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But this is what you have:

So...that seems pretty desperate to me.

And, as much as you'd like us to believe that you're swimming in wealth, you don't always have the cash.
If I wanted you to think I was swimming in wealth, why would I say that? Please, use a little common sense.

Why is it desperate to moderate my spending? Sure, I'd love to be with her every day but that isn't how this works. Desperate is not moderating my spending, right? And yes, I can't always afford a $5000 weekend... like the one I just had! nyuck nyuck nyuck!!!

Desperate is putting up with someone I don't want just for sex. Every fiber in my body wants THIS woman.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Mohave Valley, AZ
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Desperate is desperate. That was one little bit of information that I happened to glean out of your ginormous thread that got locked.

You wanted us all to think you were swimming in wealth. But you're not.

You never once said you were moderating your spending; all you said was, "I spend xxx on my escort." I hardly think that spending $500+ per month for your escort is moderating your spending.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:41 PM
 
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Desperate is desperate. That was one little bit of information that I happened to glean out of your ginormous thread that got locked.

You wanted us all to think you were swimming in wealth. But you're not.
No, your own post above shows that I wasn't trying to say I have unlimited means here. You just want to paint me in that light.

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You never once said you were moderating your spending; all you said was, "I spend xxx on my escort." I hardly think that spending $500+ per month for your escort is moderating your spending.
It's more like $7500 month, and it's less than my wife cost me but I'm getting more than I had before.

If you need to paint this as something to protect your own biases, I understand. But I like what I have. I'm sorry if my happiness makes you so miserable.

Do I wish I had Warren Buffet's money? You bet. I'd have my own island filled with naked women.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:42 PM
 
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not really.
i would rather be alone and perusing something i love then chase after things i need in the moment.

now, if you had asked me this question 15 years ago when i was a much younger man the tables would have most defiantly been turn in the other favor.
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