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There was a article in the news paper I think last week about seeking arrangements I was shocked that sugar daddies/mummies were looking for sugar babies!! It's mostly students looking for a wealthy male or female, they spend time (sexual i assume) with the wealthy individual in exchange for gifts and a monthly allowance.
I'm very confused as to how this does not fall under the laws of prostitution?
No, but who knows what tomorrow will bring when I realize that attempting to find dates just wasn't worth the time and effort, which I feel that I'm closer to than I probably think I am.
"older man taking care or catering to a younger woman"
Or, in the case of laurenaus they are close to the same age.
"Now that society has change and shifted this makes no sense and is seen as deviant behavior." We just have more convieniant places such as online forums to discuss such topics.
Which I am eternally greatful for.
There are many prevailing attitudes about what is appropriate I feel the whole sugar daddy sugar baby dynamic is wrapped up in so many things on both a bigger social and on a personal level.
I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?
I see one young woman regularly and have seen many. If my wife had treated me right, I wouldn't be chasing young women now. Honestly, I have pretty much given up on women my age, not because I find them inherently unappealing but because I don't like their attitude.
I believe that women have been trained to be insensiitive to men's needs. And now we see the price for that. True romance is fleeting but the sex drive goes on.
On the flip side, many women simply lose their sex drive. Even my sister has commented that she's starting to see the logic in the practice of keeping a mistress. Her sex drive is all but gone and her husband is miserable, as are many married men. So I think the problem is mostly biological in nature. Men's sex drive generally outlast their women's, and by many years.
I'm very confused as to how this does not fall under the laws of prostitution?
Apparently the terms of the website states that it's a personal arrangement and that no sexual act is required. It's an arrangement that suits both parties involved she spends time with him and he gives her an allowance, however I don't believe there isn't sex involved. I went on the time but I could only see some things as I'm not a member but some of the men are in their 30s and handsome I don't understand why they would pay so much money for a women.
Some of the girls were asking $10,000 a month!! To me that's insane!! Also the men put their occupation on their profile as well as what they're willing to pay and their annual salary.
Apparently the terms of the website states that it's a personal arrangement and that no sexual act is required. It's an arrangement that suits both parties involved she spends time with him and he gives her an allowance, however I don't believe there isn't sex involved. I went on the time but I could only see some things as I'm not a member but some of the men are in their 30s and handsome I don't understand why they would pay so much money for a women.
Some of the girls were asking $10,000 a month!! To me that's insane!! Also the men put their occupation on their profile as well as what they're willing to pay and their annual salary.
And when you understand why men do this, you will understand men.
I can tell you that one of the biggest appeals for me is that a woman who is paid doesn't feel entitled to constantly complain. Throw in the exremely hot factor and regular, hot sex with a gorgeous woman, and a regular relationship seems less and less appealing all the time.
Yes there are younger men on these sites who are conventionally good looking but they're paying for a very specific type of arrangement. They don't have time for a relationship which requires lots of energy and time especially if they're constantly traveling for work. They are looking for a drama free, convenient, no strings attached ongoing relationship which can also end at any time.
And when you understand why men do this, you will understand men.
I can tell you that one of the biggest appeals for me is that a woman who is paid doesn't feel entitled to constantly complain. Throw in the exremely hot factor and regular, hot sex with a gorgeous woman, and a regular relationship seems less and less appealing all the time.
I'm sure that if a man is good looking has a good job he could fine a women willing to spend time with him without a hefty price tag. In my opinion these women are prostitutes.
I agree with Robert. I don't think it's right.
Your obviously fine with it have you done it?
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