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no way not at all. I had several girls who were 4 years young than me (and i'm 21 also) had tried making me their sugar daddy and when i gave them the message that it wasn't going to be that way they walked out. I may be a nice guy and all but i work hard for my money and being a sugar daddy makes me feel used and that i'm worth nothing more than that.
Nah, couldn't do it. There is nothing desirable about a relationship like that for me. There are plenty of hot women who have their own careers, own money and are more compatiable to be with, than me spending money on someone just to keep me company. Besides I just can't bring myself to sleep with someone that really doesn't want to be with me.
Wow, all the men on this thread have changed my opinions on the thoughts and desires of men.
I really thought the OP was going to go down in flames.
That's because there's an enormous difference between a man and an overgrown boy. A man follows his principles. A boy is led around in life by his balls.
Suncc49--he pays his own bills. I don't support him. I'm realizing three years into it I'm like his free sugar baby though. When he got with me at 18 it certainly wasn't for wonderful personality.
That's because there's an enormous difference between a man and an overgrown boy. A man follows his principles. A boy is led around in life by his balls.
I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?
I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.
I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.
I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.
Simple fact is that I know a couple of girls that have a "sugar daddy". One is pregnant, and does not know if the father is her sugar daddy or her boyfriend. And, neither of them know about the other.
Another, her sugar daddy is also her drug connection. He's a drug dealer, and I now have his license number. As of yesterday, so do the cops. I hope he's dumb enough to be carrying it in the car when he's driving around.
The third one I knew isn't around anymore. Her sugar daddy was also a drug dealer. He was also infected. She's gone for some years now for illegal transmission of HIV from her sugar daddy to a couple of her boyfriends.
Not a chance in Hell I want any part of that. The stakes are too high.
Suncc49--he pays his own bills. I don't support him. I'm realizing three years into it I'm like his free sugar baby though. When he got with me at 18 it certainly wasn't for wonderful personality.
Woo hoo, some real men up in here today.
Well it's time to respect yourself and grow up. A guy doesn't have to take you to chi-chi four-star restaurants to be in a relationship with you. But he has to give you the gift of his time and attention. If he just strolls into your apartment, nails you, and leaves, then you are indeed being used.
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