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View Poll Results: Would you be a sugar daddy, giving up a more loving, committed relationship for fresh meat?
Yes 36 30.00%
No 84 70.00%
Voters: 120. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-19-2013, 11:14 AM
 
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I'm sure that if a man is good looking has a good job he could fine a women willing to spend time with him without a hefty price tag. In my opinion these women are prostitutes.


I agree with Robert. I don't think it's right.
Okay, so don't hire a sugar baby!

It isn't a matter of finding someone with whom to spend time. It is what you get from that time.

Okay they're prostitutes. So what. I've been seeing escorts for two years and it has been far more rewarding than my marriage of twenty five years ever was.

If it is right for the men and woman who do this, who are you to judge? Why isn't this really just you telling other people how to live?
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Okay, so don't hire a sugar baby!

It isn't a matter of finding someone to spend time. It is what you get from that.

Okay they're prostitutes. So what. I've been seeing escorts for two years and it has been far more rewarding than my marriage of twenty five years ever was.

If it is right for the men and woman who do this, who are you to judge?

I just don't understand why someone would think that little of themselves that they would actually pay someone to spend time with them or have sex with them to me it's just not right. It's not real it's fake.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:16 AM
 
Location: socal
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I hope that whoever calls SB's prostitutes is also willing to accept that kept/trophy wives who solely stay married because their husbands fund their lifestyles are also prostitutes.

I already said that of course a good looking man with a job can find a girlfriend. They are not looking for a traditional relationship which is why they are on these sites. No one is listening lol.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:17 AM
 
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Why? Are you religious? Why do you care how other men find happiness, and why does this repulse you?
Nope. I'm not THAT religious. Why are you questioning my right to voice an opinion? When this happens, it's typically because it strikes a chord, right? These men aren't happy. They KNOW they are being soaked. Having a decoration on their arms is more important than a real relationship. For the women, the benefits of the arrangement overrides. If the guy has hit the wall, you know they are thinking of someone else, on the cover of a romance novel, while doing the deed. So, they're not happy either.

Most normal, healthy romances form between people with similar demographics from a school, work, or common interest setting, and earlier in one's life. Sorry, but that's what I've seen.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I hope that whoever calls SB's prostitutes is also willing to accept that kept/trophy wives who solely stay married because their husbands fund their lifestyles are also prostitutes.

I already said that of course a good looking man with a job can find a girlfriend. They are not looking for a traditional relationship which is why they are on these sites. No one is listening lol.
I disagree
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:19 AM
 
Location: socal
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I just don't understand why someone would think that little of themselves that they would actually pay someone to spend time with them or have sex with them to me it's just not right. It's not real it's fake.
It's not that they think little of themselves. They know they can easily find girlfriends, they are literally paying to experience only the superficial perks of relationships.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:20 AM
 
Location: socal
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I disagree
Right. Society likes to choose what kind of "prostitution" to endorse.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Right. Society likes to choose what kind of "prostitution" to endorse.
A married man supporting his wife does not make her a prostitute. Back when my parents were younger the man worked and have all his wages to the wives and they kept the money, that's how it was back then it does not mean all the women who took their husbands wages were prostitutes.
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:26 AM
 
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Nope. I'm not THAT religious. Why are you questioning my right to voice an opinion? When this happens, it's typically because it strikes a chord, right?
I didn't question your right to anything. I questioned your motives. And I'm just curious to understand this moral mumbo jumbo people like to pull out of their bums.

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These men aren't happy. They KNOW they are being soaked. Having a decoration on their arms is more important than a real relationship. For the women, the benefits of the arrangement overrides. If the guy has hit the wall, you know they are thinking of someone else, on the cover of a romance novel, while doing the deed. So, they're not happy either.

Most normal, healthy romances form between people with similar demographics from a school, work, or common interest setting, and earlier in one's life. Sorry, but that's what I've seen.
Ah, so your objections are purely philanthropic. I see. That's why you find these poor misguided men repulsive. Do you find starving people repulsive as well?

Be honest. You could care less about their happiness. This is really about how you think the world should be.

I have posted many times that I like what I do. It is a choice. Why do you think you know better?
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Old 02-19-2013, 11:27 AM
 
Location: socal
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I didn't mean a married man supporting his wife. I am referring to trophy wives who stay with their husbands who are well off not out of love, but because of the flashy lifestyle they can provide. In turn the wife provides sex and eye candy he can show off and maintain his image with.
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