Men, would you be a sugar daddy given the chance? (girl, Valentine's Day)
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Get a time machine and go back to the 80's when the economy was better and men could afford and liked to be sugar daddies or move to asia you will find loads of older white american men who are looking for poor 20-30 yr old women to spoil. Not saying you are one since your boyfriend is poor but other women who want sugar daddies.
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Originally Posted by djohanna
I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?
I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.
I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.
I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.
I bet you are wrong! I had the chance to marry and live with a younger beautiful woman when I was in my forties. I didn't because anyone who would marry for money would also be willing to file for divorce if she didn't receive what she thought she was worth. Many of those women think they are a real prize, when in reality they are not. Knowing what I know now, I would never ever marry a woman who was in her twenties, I would wait for her to grow up and become more mature.
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That's really splitting hairs. If the sugarbaby wasn't reciprocating in the form of sexual favors, how long do you think the checks would keep coming in?
I don't particularly care much about prostitution. So long as it is a business transaction between two adults, there really is no need for me to involve myself. My opinion is that I personally would never be a prostitute, but if other people want to participate, go for it.
In every sense of word, my ex was a sugarbaby who just didn't put out.
That was a highly asymetric relationship. All give and no recieve, for me. This is much better.
Yeah, we loved each other once, but in the end, that didn't mean much.
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