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I don't know about you guys but I'm starting to wonder why I bother to date or even befriend any women who are less than 9s and 10s. Every time I give a 8 or less a chance they turn out to be either crazy or a seething mass of jealousy and hatred toward better looking women
It's like they've been dealt a less than perfect hand so they've decide to go through the rest of their life being angry. Either that or they overcompensate by demanding even more
Looking back over the girls I've dated and/or been friends with you'd think I'm incredibly shallow But I realize now that I picked those girls for another reason entirely! They were the nice ones, the sweet ones, the ones who were easy to get along with and didn't hate every other woman that crossed their path.
This probably doesn't apply to all 10s but it's easy to spot the ones who are really nice. They're the ones with few if any female friends. That's because they're despised and shunned not only for their looks but also for their charisma with guys. Since they haven't been able to make friends with other girls they're forced to make friends with guys, so naturally they become more comfortable with guys, and guys like them even more then they normally would.
These are the same women who don't like to be fawned over for their looks and often deemphasize their looks by wearing less make up. Since they need male friends they want guys to treat them like human beings, not trophies.
I've also found that these women have a certain vulnerability about them. You can plainly see how they've been hurt by the way they've been treated by other women. It makes me sad But on the bright side as long as you don't act like a lovesick puppy around them they'll make a guy an excellent friend and perhaps more
I couldn't agree more, you just described why I have all guy friends. That and I hate how catty women are. If a man has a problem with another, they duke it out, but most women will call you a b*tch behind your back and two seconds later smile and stare you right in the eye.
Because the good looking women have confidence backing them up.
And because good looking women are treated kindly by society. I was pretty average when I was younger and when you are you realize right away that pretty women get special treatment.
For example, the pretty waitress, where I worked, who messed up her orders, didn't get food out on time and everyone else had to cover for made three times as much in tips as the rest of us AND didn't get fired for it. Once, I was the only waitress to show up on the midnight shift on a SUnday night with a Monday holiday. We were swamped. I did the best I could only to get fired the next day because I didn't get the midnight shift cleaning done. We needed 4 or 5 waitresses on the floor for the business we had. Three were scheduled but the other two didn't show.
And it's not just women. My step son could have posed for the adonis. Time after time again, he's gotten away with things like B&E. He broke into a guys car, stole his wallet and his stereo. When I found his drivers license while cleaning, I took it to him and asked him to press charges explaining that we'd done everything we could with the kid and needed help from the system. He did but dropped the charges a couple of days later. SS#1 had gone to see him and he "didn't want to see such a nice young man go to Juvy". Um, nice young men don't break into your car, steal your stereo and your wallet!! He's good looking so they smacked him on the wrist.
When we met his third wife, she was still married and pregnant with his child. Of course the family had a few choice things to say BEFORE she got here. She turned out to be just as pretty as him and from that point forward, all was forgiven. She wasn't a tramp anymore because she was "SOOOOOO pretty".
Of course pretty people have better attitudes. If I'd gotten knocked up by one man while still married to another and broken up his marriage, I'd STILL be a tramp. I'm not pretty enough to be forgiven such sins.
To the OP, as to who you date, remember that pretty fades and, often, ex beauties become bitter and obsessed with looks. At least, with the plain ones, what you see is what you get.
A 10 can be cold, unkind, malelovent in mind, etc. a 4 can be sweet and kind.
You also make the assumption that all non-10 women are jealous of 10 women. It depends on their own personalities, and whether they even believe in jealousy.
A 10 can be cold, unkind, malelovent in mind, etc. a 4 can be sweet and kind.
You also make the assumption that all non-10 women are jealous of 10 women. It depends on their own personalities, and whether they even believe in jealousy.
I define 'nice' as: friendly, sweet, kind, gentle, considerate.
As for the jealousy, I don't make assumptions, I observe actual behavior.
Watch out, smel, he's gonna call you a "feminist 2". Because the idea that you are a person and not a car is extremely radical and totally offensive to men like the OP.
I thought the OP was a young teenager, a mature adult male would never make a post like that. A normal mature and consummated single man would just date various women, maybe have a long term relationship or two then at some point meet the right person to marry or discover that she has been next door all the time. The OPs post was dripping with classic teenage hormonal talk talk.
Rating people on a scale of one to ten based on looks is extremely juvenile and is about as likely to produce a good relationship as mate hunting based on wealth.
My advise to the OP would be to just go find your "girl next door" no matter what number she is rated at), build a house and start making babies. In that order.
Take your time, you have your whole life ahead of you.
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But I realize now that I picked those girls for another reason entirely! They were the nice ones, the sweet ones, the ones who were easy to get along with and didn't hate every other woman that crossed their path.
But on the bright side as long as you don't act like a lovesick puppy around them they'll make a guy an excellent friend and perhaps more 
I can't even respond to the o/p but I will say I can't believe it actually got serious(?) responses. 
