Beautiful women are nicer than average looking women (how to, loving, young)
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I've been making a concentrated effort for several years to try and be less superficial. I have not even approached a woman that i would consider Better Looking than Average in at least 2 years. I was thinking before that perhaps i was too superficial, and i should really make an effort to give average and even below-average looking women a chance. I should really try and pay attention to the ladies that other guys overlook, in the hopes that i would find some nicer ladies and also not get rejected so much.
Guys, it does not work! I got shot down a lot in my life, by both model-type women and average women. And let me tell you... when a very pretty woman shoots you down, it is surprising how classy she will tend to be about it. It still sucks getting rejected. But average looking women are just harsh! They yell at you for complaining too much and not doing enough about your problems, even though they don't even know you and they have no idea how hard you are trying to improve your life. They tell you that you are too negative. They give you all kinds of "life advice" that really just hurts and tears down your self esteem even more. All under the guise of being "well-meaning, just trying to help." With "friends" like that, who needs enemies?
All these years, people have been telling me to not be so superficial... that if only i would stop going for the overly attractive women, i would have no trouble finding a nice girl. Let me tell you, after more than two years, it's not working. I'm going to go back to approaching supermodels. I'll still probably get shot down, but at least i won't have to deal with all the harsh lectures. They are usually just quick and classy about it. It makes no sense whatsoever, but it just is true over and over again that extremely pretty girls are not as rude or harsh as average looking women.
Sorry, but I completely disagree with this. Most 'beautiful' women are highly conceited and frankly have ****ty personalities. Average women definitely are better, hands down.
You may be getting 'harsh lectures' from those women due to your 'approach', etc. and it has nothing to do with their looks.
Beauty is skin deep- ugliness is all the way through...actually....beautiful woman are a sign of good breeding- good breeding creates good looks and brains...most truly beautiful woman are almost always wonderful- It's quality....If you see a face that looks like a can of worms coming up the street- you know there is a can of worms lurking on the inside also.
Beauty is skin deep- ugliness is all the way through...actually....beautiful woman are a sign of good breeding- good breeding creates good looks and brains...most truly beautiful woman are almost always wonderful- It's quality....If you see a face that looks like a can of worms coming up the street- you know there is a can of worms lurking on the inside also.
Oh really?
I've known so-called 'beautiful' women on the outside who were nastier on the inside than some of the ugliest people on the outside I've ever seen.
But average looking women are just harsh! They yell at you for complaining too much and not doing enough about your problems, even though they don't even know you and they have no idea how hard you are trying to improve your life. They tell you that you are too negative. They give you all kinds of "life advice" that really just hurts and tears down your self esteem even more. All under the guise of being "well-meaning, just trying to help." With "friends" like that, who needs enemies?
What, exactly, is your approach if it leads to this kind of response? Maybe I'm not very creative, but I'm trying to think of how turning a guy down would involve telling him that he's not doing enough about his problems or that I'm just trying to help.
Also, if you're coming on a bit thick, an average woman might be suspicious of your motives if she's not used to effusive compliments.
I have to say I see this a lot from men. The best looking men might reject me but tend to be nice about it (and claim it's not because of my looks). Ugly men though are the worst and they are the most judgmental and picky online.
Maybe beautiful women are used to being approached a lot & they know how to let down someone gently. Looks like you are approaching a lot of insecure women with issues. An average looking, but secure & confident woman wont insult someone like that. Try this combination & see if it works.
Sorry, but I completely disagree with this. Most 'beautiful' women are highly conceited and frankly have ****ty personalities. Average women definitely are better, hands down.
You may be getting 'harsh lectures' from those women due to your 'approach', etc. and it has nothing to do with their looks.
That's cos' you don't know what beauty is- Most men and some woman think beauty consists of expensive hair- well applied make up- expensive clothing and a lofty attitude...I can look a a woman and if she is carrying conceit..then she does not look beautiful...she may have okay features but no real beauty...they might as well be butt ugly.
Yesterday I hopped on a street car - there was a young woman standing there with a box of plants...They looked like "rescued" plants...I could not keep my eyes off her...She literally had the most beautiful face...like an angel....and she respected life (plants).....I stood and began to chat with her...we talked about nature...She had the most beautiful purity...a wonderful loving and kind spirit...finally I said to her.."I had to talk to you because your face is very beautiful...I was honest....She was truly one out of a million....as we parted I commented on her eyes...she returned the compliment saying that their was kindness in my eyes...
I don't usually take the street car for a short trip- but this woman made my afternoon...There are real beautiful people out there....On the return trip I was observing what most guys would call a couple of hot chicks...They had the best clothing- the expensive colored hair..their features were not bad- but there was this jaded hardness in their skin...a certain nastiness that came for leading superficial lives.....The truly beautiful woman I met first- did not need make up...or flashy clothing- she was a NATURAL.
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