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I was married once to a liar and a cheater. His world, built on deceit, eventually crumbled beneath his feet, and I left him. The last civil word he said to me was, "I'm really sorry. You deserve better. I have a lot of regrets about how I treated you and our marriage."
I went on to marry a man who just so happens to be very good looking. He also has an outgoing personality and a terrific smile, coupled with a sense of humor and hearty laughter when he's amused. Women will flirt with him right in front of me. But you know why I'm not worried about him cheating on me? Because time and again, he's proven to me by his words and actions that he is an honest, kind man who respects me.
So - yes, I know it can happen to me. I know it happened to me in the past because I married a liar and a cheat. If I'd dated him long enough, I would have realized this before I married him and saved us both a lot of hassle.
I also know that thankfully, there are many men out there who are not at all like you and who do not seek relationships outside of their marriage or monogamous commitment. You'd do well to go seek some of those men out and ask THEM how they developed such good character, rather than offering ADVICE to others about your lying, cheating behaviors and your ability to attract women.
I wish your wife luck. She's going to need it.
I figured that, based on your previous posts. I am glad that you found true happiness, even if it was with a future man. I hope that your ex was able to become a better man, and I am sure that he will forever regret his actions as he has from what I can tell, lost a gem. Still, he deserves happiness too. Hopefully he has found it.
You didn't address how ashamed your wife and children will be once your exposed to the world (and make no mistake you will be exposed)...just because your wife knows your "secret" privately...the pain she will experience when everyone knows will be great...it will be humiliating for her and your children...hopefully they will all recover and realize that living in the truth is the best way... Unlike others on here I feel sorry for you... Are you are just another wolf posing as a family man? I don't think so...I think you are missing something in your personality...that no amount of therapy is going to find.
For someone who believes that they have so much wisdom and insight, you certainly are not able to apply it to your own life. And then you have the ego to attempt to "open the floor" as if to offer advice to others when you have stated several times that you have no remorse for what you have done. Seriously....take a seat! The only people who you are fooling have their BS meter turned off.
I already mentioned that I am unable to apply this to my own life. You're stating the redundant I believe that's already been established.
I didn't say I have no remorse. I said I didn't "feel guilt". Those are separate things. I know on a logical level that not feeling guilt is not normal. Again, this is the reason why I have sought help. It seems to me that your problem is that my tone has come off as prideful or amusement about my actions. I don't know how else to relay this but I don't feel any pride in this at all. If I have portrayed anything else, for that I apologize to you.
agreed, but those who make the mistake once and regret it, never do it again.
Those are a different type of cheater, not a serial cheater. Those are non-serial cheaters and they don't have the same childhood trauma as serial cheaters.
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