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View Poll Results: What are the best cities to meet single Black/African-American females, ages 21-30?
Boston 10 5.10%
Providence 5 2.55%
NYC 49 25.00%
Philadelphia 26 13.27%
Wilmington, DE 5 2.55%
Baltimore 24 12.24%
Washington, D.C. 93 47.45%
Richmond 7 3.57%
Hampton Roads, VA 11 5.61%
Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill 16 8.16%
Charlotte, NC 32 16.33%
Winston-Salem-Greensboro 5 2.55%
Atlanta 120 61.22%
Charleston, SC 6 3.06%
Savannah, GA 6 3.06%
Nashville 6 3.06%
Tampa-St. Pete 5 2.55%
Orlando 3 1.53%
Miami-Ft. Lauderdale 13 6.63%
New Orleans 22 11.22%
Houston 46 23.47%
Dallas 29 14.80%
Memphis 17 8.67%
Chicago 38 19.39%
St. Louis 14 7.14%
Cleveland 10 5.10%
Columbus, OH 7 3.57%
Detroit 19 9.69%
Milwaukee 6 3.06%
Other (please specify) 10 5.10%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 196. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-26-2024, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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Los Angeles.


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Old 02-26-2024, 11:55 AM
 
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^The irony is that black men outnumber black women in many metro areas out West: https://blackdemographics.com/cities...r-black-women/

So, that may play a part in options in that part of the country, as there is a pretty strong military presence even in major metros out West. For those old enough, Ebony back in the early 90's had an edition about how San Diego had a higher black male presence largely in part due to the large military presence there.
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:08 PM
 
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^The irony is that black men outnumber black women in many metro areas out West: https://blackdemographics.com/cities...r-black-women/

So, that may play a part in options in that part of the country, as there is a pretty strong military presence even in major metros out West. For those old enough, Ebony back in the early 90's had an edition about how San Diego had a higher black male presence largely in part due to the large military presence there.
It seems to me that the best city would be...

1. The city with the most in-shape, attractive women
2. The city with the least male competition

That would not be the DMV or even ATL by these metrics. I suppose "attractive" is subjective but fitness to a significant degree is not.

LA is the only place I've been where I have met very attractive Black women in their mid 20s complain about dating. They are, imo, on average better looking than their East Coast peers, but have fewer quality options in men. Many of them could move to the DMV, Texas or NYC and easily pull an attractive man with a good job. But those guys in California are not checking for them.
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:21 PM
 
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Women, w___ and weather. He wasn't lying.


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Old 02-26-2024, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Miami-Dade
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Another reason Los Angeles is on top IMO. Here is the % of NH Black women between the ages of 18-29 with a Normal BMI.

California - 60%
New York - 37.7%
District of Columbia - 37.5%
Texas - 35.7%
Maryland - 34.3%
Illinois - 30.8%
Georgia - 20.7%
So because you're scared of thick women that means all men are? No sir

I think that obviously the best cities will be those with a higher raw population and/or percentage of BW; so pretty much anything between NYC and Atlanta. If a guy can't find what he's looking for in either place then the problem lies with him.

Los Angeles' black population is relatively small for a city that size. Plenty of attractive women but slim pickings for the average man.
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:25 PM
 
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It seems to me that the best city would be...

1. The city with the most in-shape, attractive women
2. The city with the least male competition

That would not be the DMV or even ATL by these metrics. I suppose "attractive" is subjective but fitness to a significant degree is not.

LA is the only place I've been where I have met very attractive Black women in their mid 20s complain about dating. They are, imo, on average better looking than their East Coast peers, but have fewer quality options in men. Many of them could move to the DMV, Texas or NYC and easily pull an attractive man with a good job. But those guys in California are not checking for them.
If there are more men, how do they have less options versus areas where there are more women than men?
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:29 PM
 
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If there are more men, how do they have less options versus areas where there are more women than men?
There are not more Black men in Los Angeles. At least not in the 21-30 age range. Scroll upthread to see my post on this.
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Flawduh
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So because you're scared of thick women that means all men are? No sir

I think that obviously the best cities will be those with a higher raw population and/or percentage of BW; so pretty much anything between NYC and Atlanta. If a guy can't find what he's looking for in either place then the problem lies with him.

Los Angeles' black population is relatively small for a city that size. Plenty of attractive women but slim pickings for the average man.
You start to realize that “thick” only means fat once they hit a certain age and their arms are the size of your thighs… And they start spending tens of thousands on surgeries to get rid of the reoccurring fat. Those “thick girls” I knew back in my late teens and 20s? Yeah, they all turned out FAT. I’ll take a physically fit black woman any day over a so-called thick one.

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Old 02-26-2024, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Miami-Dade
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You start to realize that “thick” only means fat once they hit a certain age and their arms are the size of your thighs… And they start spending tens of thousands on surgeries to get rid of the reoccurring fat. Those “thick girls” I knew back in my late teens and 20s? Yeah, they are turned out FAT. I’ll take a physically fit black woman any day over a so-called thick one.
I understand what was meant. I'm just saying it isn't a problem for me and many other men.
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Old 02-26-2024, 12:42 PM
 
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So because you're scared of thick women that means all men are? No sir
We know all men are not. For those who are, the United States is a land of great bounty. For men who prefer women under 150 lbs, however, California is by far the best option.

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I think that obviously the best cities will be those with a higher raw population and/or percentage of BW; so pretty much anything between NYC and Atlanta. If a guy can't find what he's looking for in either place then the problem lies with him.
Yeah, I don't agree with that. But to each his own.

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Los Angeles' black population is relatively small for a city that size. Plenty of attractive women but slim pickings for the average man.
More pickings for the average man. You guys just make assertions that have no grounding in statistics.
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