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my goodness. such hostility. honestly though maybe if you would stop obssesing on the word "troll". i will take your insults seriously. maybe you're the ones needing to expand your vocabulary other than trolls. some posters help me see the light. coz they give me serious analysis of my "dilemma" rather than focus on the trolling insults. i know to choose the best advice given by non troll posters anyway. and i started the thread coz it is not healthy for me. the son(notice the deleted adopted term) of my sis is enjoying my sister's generosity while i try my best to live my life without the hate which i honestly don't want to feel. simple things like he can't even clean his own room even if my sis tells him to **** me off. that's why i said i am worried about how he will treat her esp on his teenage years.
So LBSer - how old is your nephew? I thought we were talking about a baby here.
Thanks! Guess I had missed that! So, for ten years, you've hated your nephew? I go back to my original advice.
1. Move out ASAP!
2. Get counseling!
3. Find another job to supplement your income!
Just FYI - it's not unusual that 10 year olds argue over cleaning their rooms and doing chores. We don't hate our children that won't cooperate. We teach and guide them in loving ways what's expected.
I just honestly can't imagine someone 30 years old having these feelings that you share.
im not that vile to hate a baby! i started hating him when i witness how my sis was spoiling him. im not that heartless to be jealous of an infant. im not that pathetic. i just dont like when he does not do what he was asked to do... i feel like he was just receiving and receiving and worried that he would grow up with that attitude and my sis don't deserve to be used/treated like that esp by him.
im not that vile to hate a baby! i started hating him when i witness how my sis was spoiling him. im not that heartless to be jealous of an infant. im not that pathetic. i just dont like when he does not do what he was asked to do... i feel like he was just receiving and receiving and worried that he would grow up with that attitude and my sis don't deserve to be used/treated like that esp by him.
Then maybe your sister should stop spoiling her child and provide a home with more discipline and higher expectations? This has more to do with your sister than her child. When you raise kids, there are behaviors constantly arising that have to be dealt with. Most of the time, we parents have a difficult time respecting the advice or opinions of others - especially those that don't have kids. I would say it's possible your sister doesn't see a problem with her child or her home. However, to "hate" the child because of some poor behaviors just isn't normal, healthy, or constructive for anyone.
im not that vile to hate a baby! i started hating him when i witness how my sis was spoiling him. im not that heartless to be jealous of an infant. im not that pathetic. i just dont like when he does not do what he was asked to do... i feel like he was just receiving and receiving and worried that he would grow up with that attitude and my sis don't deserve to be used/treated like that esp by him.
He's 10 years old. Every child in the world behaves this way. It's a normal part of growing up. You cannot expect a 10 year old to behave like an adult.
I find it pretty hypocritical that you talk about him treating your sister poorly, when you're doing exactly that - and you're definitely old enough to know better. She doesn't deserve to be treated the way you're treating her, either - and neither does he.
im not that vile to hate a baby! i started hating him when i witness how my sis was spoiling him. im not that heartless to be jealous of an infant. im not that pathetic. i just dont like when he does not do what he was asked to do... i feel like he was just receiving and receiving and worried that he would grow up with that attitude and my sis don't deserve to be used/treated like that esp by him.
You are heartless - jealous and really need to grow up.
Your sister's priority is her child. Her Child...
My kids don't listen half the time - does that make me hate them? Or resent them. Kids do that, you know?
Please, seek help...That child has to be around you and believe me when I tell you this - Kids Sense things.
He's 10 - he's still a child. Lets hope he doesn't grow up with an attitude like yours. It purdy much sucks....
simple things like he can't even clean his own room even if my sis tells him to **** me off. that's why i said i am worried about how he will treat her esp on his teenage years.
He is a ten year old child. They push their limits. That's what kids do. If your sister is spoiling him, then deal with her about it. This has NOTHING to do with the child. To hate HIM for things which are totally and utterly beyond his control, really does suck.
With you throwing out such negative energy toward him, it will be a miracle if he DOESN'T turn out bad. You are making this a self fulfilling prophcy with all your bad energy.
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