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So this 10 year old is "spoiled" because your sister does motherly things for him like buys him things and spends time with him instead of devoting all of her attention to you? Ghod forbid she should treat him like a son even though he's not her flesh and blood like you are. You either need counseling or a life. You're in your 30s and are jealous of a 10 year old? You're sitting on easy street ($400, please). You can afford your "dream car" but can't afford a place of your own or even roommates or renting a room? Sounds like you're the one spoiled. Seriously, get your priorities straight and move out of that house before you damage the psyche of your nephew (he is your nephew, remember?).
It sounds to me like you've never gotten over your parents' lack of attention to you, and you begrudge your nephew receiving some parental love.
bingo! claire. my parents are just too busy with our business. i just say to myself that they are trying to feed and make sure all their 9 kids finish college. before i live with my sis, i did rent my own apartment.
as to the question about how i treat the child, i ignore him. most of the time i wanna tell him hurtful things but i am not used to speaking what is on my mind. so you can say.. i have bottled up hatred for this boy.
You are an adult with the emotional makeup of a small child. Seek professional help immediately. AND MOVE OUT ASAP - you are poison for your nephew.
I'm sorry, but you have got to be the most pathetic pile of you-know-what I've come across on these forums. You're thirty freakin' years old and living off your sister and you have the gall to call HER adopted son "spoiled" and hate him for nothing more than not being biological. You ought to be ashamed.
You need to grow the hell up and get the hell out. No one promised you a rose garden in this life and no one promised to diaper your sorry butt forever. Grow a nut and get a life. And yes, you DO need counseling. Anyone with that much hatred towards a child has some serious emotional problems.
You aren't doing anything to hurt this child, are you? Your agreeing 100% is making me nervous...You're not acting out your feelings on this child in any way...?
I'm not the OP!!
Anyway, I'm agreeing with lovesMountains observation that the OP is 'poison' to the boy.
Anyway, I'm agreeing with lovesMountains observation that the OP is 'poison' to the boy.
Sorry, I got confused on OP's name.
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