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Old 05-20-2013, 07:47 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Everytime I see a white woman she is usually with a white man and many time with children. I can't speak for your community, but I can speak for what I see on the north east. Everytime I see an Asian woman she is usually with an Asian or white man and children. Everytime I see black women, she is usually alone, or with children. Think about that for a second.
I don't believe this. You're not noticing all the single women you walk past every day, because you're fixated on couples. The fact is that a lot of women have challenges in dating, and challenges to their self-esteem. Women with plain features, women with flat or small chests, women with disabilities or major health issues; lots of people face rejection, never get noticed, yet manage to get on with their lives. You're making yourself miserable by imagining that everyone else is matching up and having wonderful lives.

Get real. And get help.

 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:49 AM
 
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Many men like black women? Maybe you need to move to the city. It's normal.
And how many light dark black women?
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:49 AM
 
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I wish that you would just say that you find light women more attractive than dark women. Just say it and move on. Why talk in circles?
Because I have seen a few attractive black women *with dark skin* that I would date.

...But you know what?

...They are taken!

I don't know where you live, but where I lived before they were definitely able to find dates.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:51 AM
 
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Because I have seen a few attractive black women *with dark skin* that I would date.

...But you know what?

...They are taken!

I don't know where you live, but where I lived before they were definitely able to find dates.
LOL @ a few. You are such a character. I notice that many of your commments have hidden insults. The sad part is, you actually think that you are saying something complimentary.

But I am no longer interested in men anyway.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:51 AM
 
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If a guy doesn't like hair weave and tattoos, it should be across the board. Also if a guy doesn't like short mini skirts, it should be applied to all women who wear them. Don't just single dark girls out.
Says you. In reality, our perceptions of people are the sum totality of all their features and manners. We may list a few key features as the basis but that doesn't necessarily mean those features are in and of themself bad. Sometimes it's just a matter of how it all goes together, or not. Google the golden ratio.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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But I am no longer interested in men anyway.
Problem solved!
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:55 AM
 
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LOL @ a few. You are such a character. I notice that many of your commments have hidden insults. The sad part is, you actually think that you are saying something complimentary.

But I am no longer interested in men anyway.
Because most people look average!

...And I'll tell ya one thing, the average black woman here is OBESE!
...I am serious, the obesity rate in the southern black community is VERY high.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 07:57 AM
 
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Says you. In reality, our perceptions of people are the sum totality of all their features and manners. We may list a few key features as the basis but that doesn't necessarily mean those features are in and of themself bad. Sometimes it's just a matter of how it all goes together, or not. Google the golden ratio.
I agree with your statement, many times it is based on the overall look and how it all goes together. But it doesn't make sense because when I look at a woman like Kerry Washington, she seems to have the full package, but she is criticized for wearing weave and being too thin.

People call her all sorts of names for being a size 0. I am just trying to understand why light women do not seem to be judged by the same metric and btw, Kerry Washington is not even that dark.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 08:00 AM
 
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Because most people look average!

...And I'll tell ya one thing, the average black woman here is OBESE!
...I am serious, the obesity rate in the southern black community is VERY high.
Most of them are obese because they foolishly believe that having a big behind, large thighs and huge breasts will make them attractive. They haven't looked at the stats. Black women have the lowest marriage rates, but the women with no breasts, and no ass (thin white and Asian women) have the highest marriage rates.

When I point this out, some black women get upset. I strongly advise more black women to drop down to a size 0. It will greatly improve their chances of finding that special man. All of the B.S. about breast and ass being attractive is just b.s. those women are just used for sex, never really anything more.

More black women need to lose the ass along with the weight, I find it gross and very unappealing and apparently so do the majority of men.
 
Old 05-20-2013, 08:00 AM
 
Location: DFW
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I am just trying to understand why light women do not seem to be judged by the same metric and btw, Kerry Washington is not even that dark.
Understand is the last thing you are trying to do.

Why do YOU think they are treated better ? Let's hear your opinion.

Then please give it a rest.
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