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Old 03-02-2014, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I ask this because I went on a date for the first time in my life yesterday. However, the woman was an extreme extrovert and very aggressive. She made me very uncomfortable and I will not call her again. I am introverted and I will only date introverted women. I am uncomfortable around extroverted women now. Enough about me, which type of women do you prefer?
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:26 AM
 
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I prefer balanced women.

Shy can be cute, but it can be annoying sometimes. The same goes for loquacious and funny.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I ask this because I went on a date for the first time in my life yesterday. However, the woman was an extreme extrovert and very aggressive. She made me very uncomfortable and I will not call her again. I am introverted and I will only date introverted women. I am uncomfortable around extroverted women now. Enough about me, which type of women do you prefer?
You are uncomfortable around all extroverted women now because of 1 woman? What if you go out with an introverted woman and find that she is not to your liking - will you stop dating them, too?

Most people are not completely extroverted or completely introverted. Most are a mix of the two. And that is only one part of a person - extroverted and aggressive are not mutually exclusive. I would just focus on finding someone you click with instead or ruling out extroverts because one of them made you uncomfortable.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You are uncomfortable around all extroverted women now because of 1 woman? What if you go out with an introverted woman and find that she is not to your liking - will you stop dating them, too?

Most people are not completely extroverted or completely introverted. Most are a mix of the two. And that is only one part of a person - extroverted and aggressive are not mutually exclusive. I would just focus on finding someone you click with instead or ruling out extroverts because one of them made you uncomfortable.
I am not an outgoing man. Why would I date a woman who is outgoing? We
would not be compatible.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:33 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I am not an outgoing man. Why would I date a woman who is outgoing? We
would not be compatible.
Why not? I'm much more outgoing than my husband is. I draw him out a bit and he calms me down a bit. It works out perfectly. We complement each other.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:34 AM
 
Location: USA
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Go on another 50 dates and get back to us! 1 date is not enough to even start to form an opinion.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:36 AM
 
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Why not? I'm much more outgoing than my husband is. I draw him out a bit and he calms me down a bit. It works out perfectly. We complement each other.
That is nice you and your husband can make it work. But I don't think I could make it work with a woman who is more outgoing than me.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That is nice you and your husband can make it work. But I don't think I could make it work with a woman who is more outgoing than me.
And you've decided this after 1 date with 1 woman? Just relax, meet people, have fun, and don't rule people out because of one bad date.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:39 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I'm not so sure one date is a big enough sample to draw that conclusion from. However, I will say that as an introvert (INFP primarily, though I lean toward INTP at times), I greatly prefer and often get involved with fellow introverts. I've only dated one guy who was ENTJ, and we were compatible in some ways, but I do seem to "click" far better with introverts.

While I am naturally an introvert, I am a situation-specific extrovert.
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:42 AM
 
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lmao

how do you expect to ever get laid with your atitude
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