The reason why you can or cannot get a date, a relationship, etc... (dating, women)

[Braunwyn]

Look carefully

This can be harsh or kind, but I think it's the truth.

[Raging-Hetero]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Look carefully

This can be harsh or kind, but I think it's the truth.

I don't have a webcam.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by Raging-Hetero

I don't have a webcam.

Well, hopefully you can figure out the message. A walk to your bathroom would probably do the trick.

[jobaba]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Look carefully

This can be harsh or kind, but I think it's the truth.

You're forever spouting about how water seeks it's own level and that you should have exactly what your mate has in terms of educational attainment, career, and assets.

So, I'm curious. If your philosophy is so unilaterally geared towards that, surely you won't be reticent about disclosing what exactly you have.

Degrees, schools, salary, profession, houses, cars, etc.

I haven't seen you list your 'wares' in the education section. If it's impressive, then I'll **** and let you carry on your way.

[Huckleberry3911948]

in most cases hypertension. we live in a society that awards high stress job success, this leaves us a social nut case. women like relaxed easy going men but very very successful men.
all u gota do is wait til u retire early then u will have the success and the laid back behavior.
unfortunately if you wait too late u will turn into a broken down old man and they wont want u.

[Moe'sTavern]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

Look carefully

This can be harsh or kind, but I think it's the truth.

I think people already know that, but it's just easier and requires no effort to take action and wallow in self-pity

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by jobaba

You're forever spouting about how water seeks it's own level and that you should have exactly what your mate has in terms of educational attainment, career, and assets.

So, I'm curious. If you're philosophy is so unilaterally geared towards that, surely you won't be reticent about disclosing what exactly you have.

Degrees, schools, salary, profession, houses, cars, etc.

I haven't seen you list your 'wares' in the education section. If it's impressive, then I'll **** and let you carry on your way.

It's not my philosophy. It's what actually happens. And I'm not sure what my education, profession, and home ownership has to do with it. Water does indeed seek its own level (that's really another poster's terminology, but she's spot on). Although, my husband and I are of the same cloth and we do happen to have similar levels of education, profession, etc, which is typical.

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by Moe'sTavern

I think people already know that, but it's just easier and requires no effort to take action and wallow in self-pity

I think most know it, but there are a handful on this forum who don't know it.

[jobaba]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

It's not my philosophy. It's what actually happens. And I'm not sure what my education, profession, and home ownership has to do with it. Water does indeed seek its own level (that's really another poster's terminology, but she's spot on). Although, my husband and I are of the same cloth and we do happen to have similar levels of education, profession, etc, which is typical.

How else would you quantify 'water level'?

Or are you just talking about looks period? Because that's nice on Christmas Eve, telling people the reason they suck at dating is because they are too ugly.

Well ... what do you have? I'm waiting.

You can check my posts in the education section to see what I've got.

[Moe'sTavern]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

I think most know it, but there are a handful on this forum who don't know it.

I think on some level even those handful know it; but they post or start threads spouting the opposite to get some validation of that false viewpoint and totally avoid the real reason.