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View Poll Results: What's the dealbreaker?
Woman with kids 30 21.74%
gold-digger 40 28.99%
woman with a slutty past 28 20.29%
attention ***** 15 10.87%
Other 25 18.12%
Voters: 138. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-19-2009, 08:46 PM
YAZ
 
Location: Phoenix,AZ
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The "attention" thing.

Someone said "12" lovers.



"Manwhore", guilty as charged.

My wife and I have had "quite a few" between the two of us......it doesn't bother me. I'm just glad I finally found someone that knows what she's doing....
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Old 08-19-2009, 08:50 PM
 
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For me personally, I'd say anything over 12 is a ****.
Da ham. I have been a bad bad baaaaad girl.
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Old 08-19-2009, 09:05 PM
 
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My list of deal breakers in the following order...

- DEPENDENTLY MINDED WOMEN

- EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE WOMEN

- HIGH MAINTENANCE WOMEN

- THE INTERROGATIVE/INSECURE TYPE (i.e., the ones who regularly ask..."what do you mean by that?")

- IGNORANT WOMEN

- THOSE LACKING SOME FORM OF HIGHER EDUCATION

- GOLD DIGGERS

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Old 08-19-2009, 09:14 PM
 
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Just curious, define "slutty past." How many is too many? (and I'm asking this while fully aware that there is a double standard for men and women)
Theres no number its more the type of person she is,were there allot of one night stands where she went to bars/clubs and had sex with a guy then blacked out??
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Old 08-19-2009, 11:20 PM
 
Location: Salt Lake City, Utah
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My only deal breakers are: if the person is high maintenance and/or a social conservative.
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Old 08-19-2009, 11:39 PM
 
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There is nothing worse than a gold digger. I mean, if you had a lot of money and knowing that your woman was only interested in you because of your bank account?? Nothing worse than that...
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Old 08-19-2009, 11:48 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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There is nothing worse than a gold digger. I mean, if you had a lot of money and knowing that your woman was only interested in you because of your bank account?? Nothing worse than that...
Whereas some guys don't care -- it's the price they're willing to pay to have a trophy wife/mistress draped on their arm. Thinly disguised prostitution IMO, but I guess it works for some.
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Old 08-20-2009, 05:49 AM
 
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It's a blurry line between materialistic and gold digger. I know of a few girls who got a four year degree, make around $50K and are financially stable who married guys who make six figures. They drive BMWs, where very nice cloths, only eat at fancy restaurants and only stay at high end hotels.
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Old 08-20-2009, 06:43 AM
 
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Slutty past is in the lead. So, guys how many women have you slept with and how does that compared to how many are acceptable for your future bride?
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Old 08-20-2009, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, Ca
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I agree, the lines are blurry between materialistic and gold digger.

Gold digger being...Anna Nicole Smith and a 90 year old man in a wheelchair, lol. Who happens to be worth $500 million. That one is pretty obvious. If her breasts are bigger and firmer than the wheelchair or cane the guy is using...good sign its a gold digger.

Materialistic might be a girl making $50 k with a guy making $100 or $150. She brings something to the table but wants more. And she can trade up from her BMW to a nicer Mercedes.

My question, to what degree is she an attention wh*re. If you cant stand to be around her, or are embarrassed all the time with her, not good.

The worst would be a high maintance, unstable, ignorant gold digger...with kids Who can't string a sentence together...except maybe for $$$ signs.
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