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View Poll Results: What's the dealbreaker?
Woman with kids 30 21.74%
gold-digger 40 28.99%
woman with a slutty past 28 20.29%
attention ***** 15 10.87%
Other 25 18.12%
Voters: 138. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-18-2009, 08:07 PM
 
Location: southern california
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lying and cheating
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Other: Poor hygiene
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:25 PM
 
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They are all potential deal breakers but the biggest one imo is slutty past. If she valued 80 other dudes enough to have sex with them what makes me so special being number 81?
Look at it this way, if you can get a girl who's been with 80 guys to settle down with you...That's a bigger accomplishment than getting a girl who's been with 5 guys to settle down with...
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:30 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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If she valued 80 other dudes enough to have sex with them what makes me so special being number 81?
And just what in the world makes you think you'd ever know if you happen to be #81?! Not that anybody would bother counting at this point...
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:39 PM
 
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Look at it this way, if you can get a girl who's been with 80 guys to settle down with you...That's a bigger accomplishment than getting a girl who's been with 5 guys to settle down with...
In my mind thats disgusting and she doesnt value herself or me. I dont think anything will ever change that. I've also had that type of woman throw herself at me plenty of times. Not saying it would have went anywhere, but it just doesnt appeal to me.


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And just what in the world makes you think you'd ever know if you happen to be #81?! Not that anybody would bother counting at this point...
I dont know if women bother counting when they reach a certain point but a lot of men do. I know one guy who stopped counting at 100, and another who got up to 250 before he got married. He ended up cheating on her shortly thereafter btw.
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:43 PM
 
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They are all potential deal breakers but the biggest one imo is slutty past. If she valued 80 other dudes enough to have sex with them what makes me so special being number 81?
As you know, it only takes one wrong dude even hypothetically the first one she did it with to potentially get STD(s) from him.

Then one can become the 81st getting infected from her.
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I dont know if women bother counting when they reach a certain point but a lot of men do. I know one guy who stopped counting at 100, and another who got up to 250 before he got married.
Wow, some people have way too much time on their hands!

And do they care to share?
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Old 08-18-2009, 08:47 PM
 
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If she was loose i want no part of that,i realize youre not gonna find many virigns today and im not askign for one but theyres some girls who have a list longer then Al Capons wrap sheet..

Also hate high maentanance girls
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Old 08-18-2009, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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There are a thousand deal-breakers for me. Such is the nature of having high standards. And/or being neurotic.
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Old 08-18-2009, 09:51 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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Just curious, define "slutty past." How many is too many? (and I'm asking this while fully aware that there is a double standard for men and women)
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