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Old 07-25-2009, 03:38 PM
 
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the 3 great lies, i dont wana get married i am not interested in your money, i love to cook.
Haha. I don't love to cook. (maybe I like it though)

I don't want to get married because its not necessary. But I might someday, if hes the right one for me and we have decided that its worth the risk, with the expectation that we are compatible enough to stay married. If things go badly, I am not a person that would want to destroy his financial future by taking away everything he's got.

I AM interested in his money. He has to give me his paycheck every week. (ideally). But I don't want to leave him broke. I agree that many laws screw up men, but I can't do much about that.
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Old 07-25-2009, 03:40 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Where are the men saying they are emotionally broken? Nowhere, stop assuming that they are because some may be going through some problems.
They didn't say they are emotionally broken, that doesn't mean they're not.
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Old 07-25-2009, 03:56 PM
 
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I chose a mate who is not emotionally broken.

Where are the men saying they are emotionally broken? Nowhere, stop assuming that they are because some may be going through some problems.
Everybody encounters problems. But everybody does not blame a gender for their problems. That type of bigotry constitutes a broken person imo.

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Fine if you have the husband you want, nobody is trying to **** on your parade or invalidate it, like you our the the men who are posting.
I take issue with the generalizations against women. Several of these threads are women-bashing. I will not keep quiet about it.

For example, "A man's not complete until he's married.... then, he's finished!"

Why do think that is ok? They aren't speaking of specific people or situations, but generalizing. That's a load of crap.

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Again the question was asked of you that if this is that distasteful for you , why interject yourself into the conversation where men were sharing their experiences.
I do the same when I encounter bigotry any where. Be it about religion, gender, politics, race, culture, etc. I enjoy the debate. Again, there are male only forums out there. By posting on a public forum, the OP is inviting everyone's opinion.
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:01 PM
 
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For example, "A man's not complete until he's married.... then, he's finished!"
Wedding Jokes one liners.. must know these 05:41 2004-02-29 Votes:24 Views:31075

Look it up - it's in there!

MAYBE you have no sense of humor I don't know. - I hope you know what MAYBE and I DON'T KNOW means.
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:04 PM
 
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Wedding Jokes one liners.. must know these 05:41 2004-02-29 Votes:24 Views:31075

Look it up - it's in there!

MAYBE you have no sense of humor I don't know. - I hope you know what MAYBE and I DON'T KNOW means.
Be clear, I didn't think the quote originated from you. And there is a thread in this forum with these jokes. I saw it. You know where you stand IRT to women, and as of late, American women. You take issue with women and you incessantly generalize.
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:04 PM
 
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I AM interested in his money. He has to give me his paycheck every week. (ideally).
LOL!!
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:06 PM
 
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LOL!!
Jason, you're such a skeptic. Have some faith, man! Lol.
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:06 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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Not all women view divorce as an economic opportunity. I've been divorced twice and did not rape my ex-husbands financially. We parted friends and have remained thus ever since.

The advice about not having children is a good one though. LOL

20yrsinBranson
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:09 PM
 
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Be clear, I didn't think the quote originated from you. And there is a thread in this forum with these jokes. I saw it. You know where you stand IRT to women, and as of late, American women. You take issue with women and you incessantly generalize.
IMO: You seem to like giving new and different meanings to some posters words and sentences when it doesn't suit you.

Whatever

Have fun!
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Old 07-25-2009, 04:10 PM
 
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Not all women view divorce as an economic opportunity. I've been divorced twice and did not rape my ex-husbands financially. We parted friends and have remained thus ever since.

The advice about not having children is a good one though. LOL

20yrsinBranson
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