People who have a ton of sexual partners (calling, advice, personality)

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by nyanna

I say most men, especially black men, want light complected women. Some of them are not even hot just light in complexion.

You sound like a hypocrite to me. So on a scale of 1-10, what kind of man do you think you deserve as far as looks?

[nyanna]

Originally Posted by 14Bricks

You sound like a hypocrite to me. So on a scale of 1-10, what kind of man do you think you deserve as far as looks?

I have no idea but I deserve a bit better than dating a guy who is homeless and doesn't have a job

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by nyanna

I have no idea but I deserve a bit better than dating a guy who is homeless and doesn't have a job

Lol, you mean like a bum? I find that hard to believe that the only men who approch you are the kind who try to wash my windshield at red lights.

Would you date a man who was like a 3-4 on the attractive scale?

[nyanna]

Originally Posted by 14Bricks

Lol, you mean like a bum? I find that hard to believe that the only men who approch you are the kind who try to wash my windshield at red lights.

Would you date a man who was like a 3-4 on the attractive scale?

Looks are subjective. But if I find him a 3-4 no I would not date him. Why would I want to be with a guy I have no desire for?

[findly185]

Again, if you've been running into the same type of men (black men who only date white girls, men who dont have jobs, men who you aren't sexually attracted to) you're going to have to go outside your comfort zone and step up your game.

If you like physically fit men, your going to have to put the makeup and hair aside and go to the gym. Or join a league.

If you like intellectual men you're going to have to join a club.

You get the idea, sitting around waiting for MR. Right just to come along and sweep you off your feet isn't going to happen.

If he isn't coming to you, be proactive and go out and find him yourself. Being shy and picky isn't going to work unless you are very very attractive and men just flock to you.

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by nyanna

Looks are subjective. But if I find him a 3-4 no I would not date him. Why would I want to be with a guy I have no desire for?

Because that's the same thing you complain that men do.

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by nyanna

I say most men, especially black men, want light complected women. Some of them are not even hot just light in complexion.

So, you're a dark-skinned woman who claims men don't want you.......and then you say there are a lot of men you don't want.

Wonder if these men are dark-skinned?

[nyanna]

Originally Posted by Lucario

So, you're a dark-skinned woman who claims men don't want you.......and then you say there are a lot of men you don't want.

Wonder if these men are dark-skinned?

darkskinned men are highly prized in the black community.

[calipoppy]

Originally Posted by nyanna

darkskinned men are highly prized in the black community.

Blair Underwood...yummy!

[calipoppy]

Originally Posted by nyanna

I don't have much to pick from. Guess I'll be alone. I dont want to have to settle for someone I am not attracted to

Curious, what is your type?