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Don't confuse your comrades here with men at large. Plenty of men have their pick. And be clear (this goes for both men and women) if you end up with a shytty partner it's likely that you are shyty yourself. Birds of a feather. Period. I know people don't like to hear it, but the vast majority of the time we attract our doppelgangers. In the mean time, grow up, take responsibility for yourself and get snipped or don't have sex. If you must put your penis in any vagina you can find, then buy your own spermicide and lather it over the condom you use. The risk of pregnancy then becomes very small.
TO be fair, he is right and you probably know this. Since women have most to lose (or gain) because of pregnancy, they are the ones to make the final decision when it comes to sex. Unless they meet someone like me that renders them powerless, that is. Women have had the final say when it comes to sex for thousands of years, this is not a modern concept by any means.
Lots to learn such as? The definition of a father is the man who provides the sperm since that's the point of a paternity test: to know who is or isn't the father. The man she's with now is a step-father at best.
If you want to go by the dictionary definition, here you go:
a. A male person whose sperm unites with an egg, resulting in the conception of a child. b. A man who adopts a child. c. A man who raises a child. 2. A male parent of an animal. 3. A male ancestor. 4. A man who creates, originates, or founds something: Chaucer is considered the father of English poetry. 5. An early form; a prototype. 6. FatherChristianitya. God. b. The first person of the Christian Trinity.
7. An elderly or venerable man. Used as a title of respect. 8. A member of the senate in ancient Rome. 9. One of the leading men, as of a city: the town fathers. 10. or Father A church father. 11. Abbr. Fr.a. A priest or clergyman in the Roman Catholic or Anglican churches. b. Used as a title and form of address with or without the clergyman's name.
v.fa·thered, fa·ther·ing, fa·thers v.tr.1. To procreate (offspring) as the male parent. 2. To act or serve as a father to (a child). 3. To create, found, or originate. 4. To acknowledge responsibility for. 5. a. To attribute the paternity, creation, or origin of. b. To assign falsely or unjustly; foist.
If you want to go by the dictionary definition, here you go:
a. A male person whose sperm unites with an egg, resulting in the conception of a child. b. A man who adopts a child. c. A man who raises a child. 2. A male parent of an animal. 3. A male ancestor. 4. A man who creates, originates, or founds something: Chaucer is considered the father of English poetry. 5. An early form; a prototype. 6. FatherChristianitya. God. b. The first person of the Christian Trinity.
7. An elderly or venerable man. Used as a title of respect. 8. A member of the senate in ancient Rome. 9. One of the leading men, as of a city: the town fathers. 10. or Father A church father. 11. Abbr. Fr.a. A priest or clergyman in the Roman Catholic or Anglican churches. b. Used as a title and form of address with or without the clergyman's name.
v.fa·thered, fa·ther·ing, fa·thers v.tr.1. To procreate (offspring) as the male parent. 2. To act or serve as a father to (a child). 3. To create, found, or originate. 4. To acknowledge responsibility for. 5. a. To attribute the paternity, creation, or origin of. b. To assign falsely or unjustly; foist.
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The first definition was pretty much sums up what I said
So how is it the cuckolded man's fault? He deserved to get cheated on why? So it's okay to cheat on someone because that means the the person they cheated on are shy?
Why do you think I give a fig about a cuckolded man? Who knows if he deserved to get cheated on. If you choose to live a dysfunctional life, put your penis in any vagina that will have you, there's nothing I can do about it. It is interesting. I never feel bad for Jerry Springer guests. I don't think anybody does.
TO be fair, he is right and you probably know this. Since women have most to lose (or gain) because of pregnancy, they are the ones to make the final decision when it comes to sex. Unless they meet someone like me that renders them powerless, that is. Women have had the final say when it comes to sex for thousands of years, this is not a modern concept by any means.
None of this removes a man's personal responsibility to himself. If you leave your fate to others then you're digging your own grave. It's the same for women. Both should not rely on anyone to take care of their own business.
Why do you think I give a fig about a cuckolded man? Who knows if he deserved to get cheated on. If you choose to live a dysfunctional life, put your penis in any vagina that will have you, there's nothing I can do about it. It is interesting. I never feel bad for Jerry Springer guests. I don't think anybody does.
It's called lying and deception. I doesn't take much to sleep with another man and get pregnant by him. How do we know his life was dysfunctional before the reveal? Sounds like you're justifying her cheating by shaming the man into raising a kid that isn't his.
None of this removes a man's personal responsibility to himself. If you leave your fate to others then you're digging your own grave. It's the same for women. Both should not rely on anyone to take care of their own business.
Which has nothing to do with what I said. Its mans responsibility to ensure that the children he is fathering, are actualy his biological children. That is my opinion.
None of this removes a man's personal responsibility to himself. If you leave your fate to others then you're digging your own grave. It's the same for women. Both should not rely on anyone to take care of their own business.
Yes. Personal responsibility to HIMSELF. Not her. Not the kid that isn't his. Himself. He should leave.
It's called lying and deception. I doesn't take much to sleep with another man and get pregnant by him. How do we know his life was dysfunctional before the reveal? Sounds like you're justifying her cheating by shaming the man into raising a kid that isn't his.
He knows and that's what matters. People know when their lives are screwed up, when they're living in dysfunctional marriages. It's why men who suspect are correct 30% of the time. And I reject this shaming language of yours.
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
Which has nothing to do with what I said. Its mans responsibility to ensure that the children he is fathering, are actualy his biological children. That is my opinion.
I agree. How that is determined will vary depending on the couple.
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