Don't you think every men should get a PRENUP before getting married and PATERNITY TEST after having kids (marriage, women)
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Just see the divorce rates and the lose-lose situation for men after divorce. Its certain that you would lose your half property, hard earned money and your kids.
You have to pay . 1) Alimony
2) Child support
I mean this marriage contract is created to favor women in every possible way. And what if the child is not your's ?
What if you are paying child support for someone's else kid ? More than 30 % of the men are paying child support for someone else kid's.
So i think every men should get a PRENUP and PATERNITY TEST after having kids. Marriage contract is a scam for men.
Just see the divorce rates and the lose-lose situation for men after divorce. Its certain that you would lose your half property, hard earned money and your kids.
You have to pay . Why would any men want to get married anyway ?
If my husband and divorced he would not lose half of HIS property...it's OUR property and it would be divided 50/50.
If you don't want to get married, then don't. Who is holding a gun to your head?
Just see the divorce rates and the lose-lose situation for men after divorce. Its certain that you would lose your half property, hard earned money and your kids.
You have to pay . 1) Alimony
2) Child support
I mean this marriage contract is created to favor women in every possible way. And what if the child is not your's ?
What if you are paying child support for someone's else kid ? More than 30 % of the men are paying child support for someone else kid's.
So i think every men should get a PRENUP and PATERNITY TEST after having kids. Marriage contract is a scam for men.
Why would any men want to get married anyway ?
Prenups have nothing to do with that. If you start talking about alimony or child support it can easily be voided in court. And if you cannot trust her to not cheat on you with another man, to get a child with him instead, then you probably shouldn't get married at all.
Also, you don't lose any of your money. The money you earn in your marriage is not yours. It is martial assets who is owned by both. The exception to this is UK where all assets are shared, and it is normally shared in favour of the woman. Before you complain you should remember the laws could have been like in the UK. If I lived in the UK I would not get married.
There is one case I would get paternity test and that is if I get the "oops, I got pregnant" case. But apart from that if you plan to get kids at a certain time, then you should trust her that the child is yours.
1. people are opting out of marriage or any obligation towards each other anyways, it's just the state that tries to impose more and more "common laws" or "marriages under different name". If you want to know, fighting the introduction of common law marriage is the most crucial thing, not prenuptial agreement itself, which can be overturned in most cases.
2. paternity testing should be done by the father as an obligatory thing. You may have no courage to say this with your other nickname and you chose to open up a new thread, but that's just it. Paternity testing should be mandatory by law for the benefit of everyone, but the state rather sees the benefit for trapping any guy to pay unknowingly for someone else's children. You should rather push for mandatory testing at birth, since it would stop this practice.
Most new couples will rather have mutual benefit for having a child out of wedlock anyways. They can claim all the benefits that the single mother would get (and those are numerous) while living as de-facto married couple. A child that is born will not be automatically assumed to be the guy's child and he'll have to agree to it. He will also do the test secretly and the results are there at the guy's disposal within a few days max. They can also repeat the test if something went wrong. This way the father can automatically fight the fraud even if he signed the papers a few days before that, and walk away safely. The rest is the concern of the parties who did the mess and he shouldn't be the victim because it's convenient for the mother or the state to ruin his life.
Just see the divorce rates and the lose-lose situation for men after divorce. Its certain that you would lose your half property, hard earned money and your kids.
You have to pay . 1) Alimony
2) Child support
I mean this marriage contract is created to favor women in every possible way. And what if the child is not your's ?
What if you are paying child support for someone's else kid ? More than 30 % of the men are paying child support for someone else kid's.
So i think every men should get a PRENUP and PATERNITY TEST after having kids. Marriage contract is a scam for men.
Why would any men want to get married anyway ?
You people crack me up.
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