We have had 5 little family dogs that play and get along fine.......
We call them the "cousins" They all can be trusted together, and at our family gatherings they are all here. The cutest little group you can imagine!
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From what you have expressed as traits you'd like, I think a Lhasa Apso would be the right dog for you.
They are fun spirited. Ours loved to go after the golf balls ,and return them back to you, so that you'd putt it out again. She loved to sit in the window and let us know who was coming. A wonderful family member.
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When she was a pup, she would take the hat off of one of the boys heads.........and race away......waiting for someone to chase her. Funny girl.
My personal family favorite is my oldest daughters Shih Tzu. They are long haired, small, and cuddling. Lover of all children and family members. Sitting quietly by the new babies when they would come home..........Just the sweetest, mellow dog, and so loving.
The Bichon as someone suggested is my middle daughters dog. They are fun loving, playful and a great loving dog. A bit laid back as a watch dog however. Just glad to be petted ,and glad to see you. It took a bit of time to train him, they even paid for someone to teach him how to use the outdoors. Once he got with the "cousin family pack" he learned without anymore fanfare!
The other two dogs you don't prefer ........we do have a small poodle. He certainly lets us know if someone is coming, and he follows me everywhere. Can't to to the pool or garden without him........nor anywhere else...LOL
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Our youngest daugher has a Jack Russell. Hers is great, it loves to hug you with both arms on each side of your face. Watch out for WET Kisses!! I don't think all in this breed have the same in temperment, so although we love our Angel........I wouldn't suggest the J.R. to you.
Gosh, you have a lot of suggestions here. So the trick is to find the right personality to match you and your family.......especially your son.
Our Lhasa left us this summer in June, she is burried up top the hill from our home.
All of the daughters, and children, walked the mountain to say their goodbyes.
Her fun loving spirit is what we will always remember.
Best of luck in your search. Do all the homework you can on the breed you choose, to be sure its the exact match for your needs....Matching your wants and needs. I found our dogs to match perfectly with what the information was forthcoming, in books and other media.
I'll be happy to know when you find the right pup, and what you finally choose.
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