37 year old virgin needs help (younger, seeking, feelings, boys)
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what you describe isn't a friend or a friendship, so you have lost absolutely NOTHING.
I've known her for three years and we've had many good conversations and we've helped each other out in many ways and there were many good times. It is not easy and if you think I've lost nothing, you have no idea what you're talking about.
I've known her for three years and we've had many good conversations and we've helped each other out in many ways and there were many good times. It is not easy and if you think I've lost nothing, you have no idea what you're talking about.
You lost a "friendship" because you wanted advice from this person? This person who told you she felt you were unworthy of dating?
You lost a "friendship" because you wanted advice from this person? This person who told you she felt you were unworthy of dating?
That's what started the argument but we argued over a couple of other issues too. Why not quit putting the word friendship in quotes. We had been friends for three years.
What's she's saying is that in her opinion, a woman woudl rather date a serial killer than you. There are some women willing to date serial killers, as they get plenty of love letters, but apparently you are less desirable than serial killers are. How does that make you feel?
Just when I think I've read the most insenstive, twisted thing I've ever read. Wow just wow.
To the OP. I don't have any male friends I would date. I also don't think I would be able to tell them why because I would not have been thinking about it. But I certainly would make the attempt to help.
There is someone for everyone. You just need an honest critique of what makes it difficult to find a date. I'm sorry your friend wouldn't give it to you. Maybe one of your other female friends will.
In the meantime, I'll tell about a recent date from hell that if you recognize any of these behavoirs in your self might help you. The guy who owns the building next door approached me and said he'd like to take me to dinner. I wasn't particularly attracted to him, but I hadn't been on a date in a while and he wasn't horrific looking so I agreed.
The first thing he did to put me off was show up at my door to get my number instead of leaving a note on my car.
Next, when he called he was very aggressive. (I think he might have called himself being assertive and decisive but I thought he was overbearing.)
I was actually hoping he wouldn't show up but he did. :-(
When he showed up, he informed me that I would need to drive because he had vision problems. (it would have been nice to know this in advance. He also didn't offer any gas money)
He kept talking about his properties and things that are suppose to let me know he had money. (It gave me the impression that money was all he had to offer)
Then he dissed someone I really like. And wouldn't let it go.
He wanted to show off his boat, which was a raggedy mess.
Finally, we went miniature golfing, during which he kept telling me how to hit the ball and which direction. The one or two times he lightened up I tried to laugh with him, but I was so put off at this point there was nothing that was going to salvage the evening or the possibility of a second date.
Agreed, it's still pretty psychotic and such stuff is always a shock to read.
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Wow just wow.