dating a 24 year old virgin. (girlfriend, married, women, love)
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So she is 23 but will be 24 very soon. She is a virgin. I have dated her for 3 years. I am a 27 year old Male who has had many partners. When I was in college It was very easy for me to be with women. I am an attractive guy. I have no problem in that department. I am very personable.
I have respected her discision to not have sex. I have never pressured her once to have sex with me. I didnt want to be THAT GUY. In the beggining it was ok because she gave me oral sex regualary. every day. sometimes 3 times a day. It was great because I had found that elusive girl that loves to go down on a guy. Being a virgin, she still has given about 15-17 different guys a blowjob. I on the other hand have slept with about 50 or so girls.
Here is my predicament:
She catches me watching porn in my apartment. She says I watch porn too much. I probobly watch porn about once a day or maybe once every other day. Its not kinky porn. Its just straight up sex between a man and a woman. I try to tell her that I am not having sex. I have basically given up sex for the past 3 years. And the blowjobs are less frequent. Maybe once every week or maybe once every 2 weeks. It went a whole month without sexual contact before. She only wants to be sexual when she is drinking. So I have to take her out to a club and spend a bunch of money and then I MIGHT get a blowjob. Maybe...
I would rather sit at home while she goes out and jack off its getting to that point. At least I can imagine sex is happening through the porn.
I get so frustrated that I start flirting with co workers just to get attention and feel arousal. My girlfriend tells me that she is a catch and that any guy would wait for her until she is married. I am trying to explain to her that most guys would say that too her and probably have another girl or girls on the side to keep them sane. She doesn't believe that.
Some may be saying "GET RID OF HER". Well its not that simple. I do care about her and I do love her. She makes me smile and she makes me happy. But we argue a lot and most of it stems from me being so sexually frustrated. I am naturally a high testosterone kind of guy. I love sports and I used to work out a lot until I hurt my back in a serious accident.
Please help and tell me what you think. Am I watching porn too much? I feel that its a relief of tension. I ask her to help me out but she wont. So I go to my computer.
She is stubborn and does not understand I feel.
Please tell me if im wrong.
she does not want to get married to me anytime soon.
She has just graduated from college and moved to LA from Georgia to peruse her career. I was flying to Georgia every month for 2 years and now she lives with me in LA.
And Im not ready to get married either. I just want to know if I am in the wrong for watching porn. I gave up sex for 3 years and I feel like I can watch porn as much as I want as long as im not going to ***** houses and cheating on her with random girls.
So she is 23 but will be 24 very soon. She is a virgin. I have dated her for 3 years. I am a 27 year old Male who has had many partners. When I was in college It was very easy for me to be with women. I am an attractive guy. I have no problem in that department. I am very personable.
I have respected her discision to not have sex. I have never pressured her once to have sex with me. I didnt want to be THAT GUY. In the beggining it was ok because she gave me oral sex regualary. every day. sometimes 3 times a day. It was great because I had found that elusive girl that loves to go down on a guy. Being a virgin, she still has given about 15-17 different guys a blowjob. I on the other hand have slept with about 50 or so girls.
Here is my predicament:
She catches me watching porn in my apartment. She says I watch porn too much. I probobly watch porn about once a day or maybe once every other day. Its not kinky porn. Its just straight up sex between a man and a woman. I try to tell her that I am not having sex. I have basically given up sex for the past 3 years. And the blowjobs are less frequent. Maybe once every week or maybe once every 2 weeks. It went a whole month without sexual contact before. She only wants to be sexual when she is drinking. So I have to take her out to a club and spend a bunch of money and then I MIGHT get a blowjob. Maybe...
I would rather sit at home while she goes out and jack off its getting to that point. At least I can imagine sex is happening through the porn.
I get so frustrated that I start flirting with co workers just to get attention and feel arousal. My girlfriend tells me that she is a catch and that any guy would wait for her until she is married. I am trying to explain to her that most guys would say that too her and probably have another girl or girls on the side to keep them sane. She doesn't believe that.
Some may be saying "GET RID OF HER". Well its not that simple. I do care about her and I do love her. She makes me smile and she makes me happy. But we argue a lot and most of it stems from me being so sexually frustrated. I am naturally a high testosterone kind of guy. I love sports and I used to work out a lot until I hurt my back in a serious accident.
Please help and tell me what you think. Am I watching porn too much? I feel that its a relief of tension. I ask her to help me out but she wont. So I go to my computer.
She is stubborn and does not understand I feel.
Please tell me if im wrong.
Thank you.
So she is willing to give various men blowjobs and yet you both believe she is a virgin? Since when is oral sex not sex? If you are buying that line of BS I don't know what there is that I can tell you.
well I am pretty sure she is due to the fact that all her friends make fun of her for it and I had a chat with her Ex bf of 2 years before me and he confirmed it. She just feels that giving bjs is not sex...Trust me I was very wary of this. I am no idiot. I am really good with women and have had no problem having sex.
she does not want to get married to me anytime soon.
She has just graduated from college and moved to LA from Georgia to peruse her career. I was flying to Georgia every month for 2 years and now she lives with me in LA.
well I am pretty sure she is due to the fact that all her friends make fun of her for it and I had a chat with her Ex bf of 2 years before me and he confirmed it. She just feels that giving bjs is not sex...Trust me I was very wary of this. I am no idiot. I am really good with women and have had no problem having sex.
Oral sex is still sex. She is no longer a virgin in that respect.
Sure she might not have had vaginal sex but she sure could have picked up any disease from blowing those other guys and with her opinion that blowjobs don't count as sex who knows if she took any safety measures or what else she may have done.
I would seriously watch out. This sounds like a bad situation.
So she is willing to give various men blowjobs and yet you both believe she is a virgin? Since when is oral sex not sex? If you are buying that line of BS I don't know what there is that I can tell you.
This is why I don't put much stock in virginity. Sexual relations are sexual relations. It's just a matter of degrees.
[it's like playing baseball - a scoreless game is still a baseball game]
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