dating a 24 year old virgin. (wife, guy, cheated, pregnancy)
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So she is 23 but will be 24 very soon. She is a virgin. I have dated her for 3 years. I am a 27 year old Male who has had many partners. When I was in college It was very easy for me to be with women. I am an attractive guy. I have no problem in that department. I am very personable. (so you should try and find someone else since you have good qualities.
I have respected her discision to not have sex. I have never pressured her once to have sex with me. I didnt want to be THAT GUY. In the beggining it was ok because she gave me oral sex regualary. WHAT this girl is not a true virgin, oral sex is sex. So as far as I know she ain't no virgin) every day. sometimes 3 times a day. It was great because I had found that elusive girl that loves to go down on a guy. Being a virgin, she still has given about 15-17 different guys a blowjob. She should just have sex with you, she is being ridiculous seriously, what does she think she is a virgin...come ON!!! I on the other hand have slept with about 50 or so girls. Hopefully was safe sex, yuck can you imagine all the STD out there.
Here is my predicament:
She catches me watching porn in my apartment. She says I watch porn too much. I probobly watch porn about once a day or maybe once every other day. Its not kinky porn. Its just straight up sex between a man and a womanSeeing porn is NORMAL, I mean you should just have sex which would be healthier, because porn does have certain things that are just not realistic. I try to tell her that I am not having sex. I have basically given up sex for the past 3 years. And the blowjobs are less frequent. Maybe once every week or maybe once every 2 weeks. It went a whole month without sexual contact before. She only wants to be sexual when she is drinking.I will tell you why she has to get drunk to have some sorts of sexual desire because she knows it is not right to have any kind of sex before marriage and she knows she ain't a virgin anymore So I have to take her out to a club and spend a bunch of money and then I MIGHT get a blowjob. Maybe...
I would rather sit at home while she goes out and jack off its getting to that point. At least I can imagine sex is happening through the porn.
I get so frustrated that I start flirting with co workers just to get attention and feel arousal. My girlfriend tells me that she is a catch and that any guy would wait for her until she is married. I am trying to explain to her that most guys would say that too her and probably have another girl or girls on the side to keep them sane. She doesn't believe that.
Some may be saying "GET RID OF HER". I am one of those who says get rid of her and NOW Well its not that simple. I do care about her and I do love her. HERE is a solution to your problem marry her, that way you will have SEX with her.She makes me smile and she makes me happy. But we argue a lot and most of it stems from me being so sexually frustrated. I am naturally a high testosterone kind of guy. I love sports and I used to work out a lot until I hurt my back in a serious accident.
Please help and tell me what you think. Am I watching porn too much? I feel that its a relief of tension. I ask her to help me out but she wont. So I go to my computer.
She is stubborn and does not understand I feel.
Please tell me if im wrong.
Incorrect. The primary definition of "virgin" is a woman who has never had sexual intercourse. If you're going to equate oral sex with loss of virginity you may just as well include kissing and heavy petting.
Exactly. A BJ is not considered sexual intercourse. However, it is considered sexual RELATIONS, which is where Bill Clinton made the error of using the wrong term that got him accused of lying and launched the impeachment trial.
I've had a similar relationship as the OP. It was only for one year though. She was a strong Christian, and so was I at the time. Toward the end of the relationship, I started feeling that I no longer wanted to live like a prude, and started to feel the needs as a man. I pretty much told her that if she is not going to give me any then I'll find someone else who will. She was crazy anyways, and had many other problems so it wasn't much of a loss. Unlike the OP's relationship however, she was not a virgin. She had a 4 year relationship/engagement in which she did have sex with him, and she would even tell detailed stories, which made me want to do the same.
Should it be assumed that from hereon in you're going to insist that anyone you date cough up numbers of men she's given oral sex to before you even think of kissing her? If that be a criteria I can see kissing soon following the path of the poor Dodo.
Exactly. A BJ is not considered sexual intercourse. However, it is considered sexual RELATIONS, which is where Bill Clinton made the error of using the wrong term that got him accused of lying and launched the impeachment trial.
I've had a similar relationship as the OP. It was only for one year though. She was a strong Christian, and so was I at the time. Toward the end of the relationship, I started feeling that I no longer wanted to live like a prude, and started to feel the needs as a man. I pretty much told her that if she is not going to give me any then I'll find someone else who will. She was crazy anyways, and had many other problems so it wasn't much of a loss. Unlike the OP's relationship however, she was not a virgin. She had a 4 year relationship/engagement in which she did have sex with him, and she would even tell detailed stories, which made me want to do the same.
She was giving you some if she performed BJs on you.
If she is still a hymen virgin, she is a virgin. And I think she is unselfish if she is willing to give bj:s to her boyfriends. That is one of the biggest sacrifices what a girl can do - Especially when she does not want to have actual sex yet.
Another fallacy. It's not unusual for a girl's hymen to break through physical activities such as bicycle riding, gymnastics, horseback riding, etc. In some cases even the insertion of a tampon can rupture it.
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