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How did this become as discussion on dating and virginity to an all out woman hating campaign? People get hurt by both sexes in all different kinds of situations. Not all woman are the same and visa versa in respect to guys.
NYC101 Take all the sensible advice and let us know how you get on.
Oh and while I'm here gotta give props to STT Resident. - Talks sense with a funny twist - gotta be female?
You could use this to your advantage and simultaneously help others in your position. You could start up a website calling all female and male virgins over, say, the age of 30, together for discussion and possible dating. You may learn just how many people are in the same boat!
On a personal level, although tantra has associations with sexuality, it helps align your energies and helps you relate with yourself and others. So you could try a tantra workshop.
YES! Finally a woman who speaks the truth. ITo the OP, i would pay CESpeed no mind. U have to believe someone who speaks in that fashion has a non existent sex life or only wants to go out, spend ur cash, and is ok with no nooky
Why pay me no mind? Because I don't think he should go out and have sex just for the sake of having sex? It's nice knowing there really are men in this world who don't think sex is the end all and be all. There are two women in their 40's who have opposing views. What this will tell the OP is what has been true from the time he posted: some women don't care, others will. It wouldn't bother me in the least bit.
You know nothing about me so you have absolutely no point of reference to make this statement.
Why pay me no mind? Because I don't think he should go out and have sex just for the sake of having sex? It's nice knowing there really are men in this world who don't think sex is the end all and be all. There are two women in their 40's who have opposing views. What this will tell the OP is what has been true from the time he posted: some women don't care, others will. It wouldn't bother me in the least bit.
You know nothing about me so you have absolutely no point of reference to make this statement.
I know you need to get laid, in real time at that, not slowmotion! WHen u go telling a man its perfectly ok to be virgin at 37, theres something wrong there.
I know you need to get laid, in real time at that, not slowmotion! WHen u go telling a man its perfectly ok to be virgin at 37, theres something wrong there.
This has to be in the top ten most ignorant statements I have ever read. .
Only a horn dog would think there's something wrong with being a 37 year old virgin.
do you like asia women?i would advice you to make a trip or more to thailand..thai women are beautiful,have a great heart,are lot of fun and you could falll in love faster then you think..
so many germans married thai women and they were really very happy...i know many men ,who had similar worries baout family and kids and they are so happy now..besides the kids are absolutely great, a beautiful mixture comes out,that take the best from both cultures...
do you like asia women?i would advice you to make a trip or more to thailand..thai women are beautiful,have a great heart,are lot of fun and you could falll in love faster then you think..
so many germans married thai women and they were really very happy...i know many men ,who had similar worries baout family and kids and they are so happy now..besides the kids are absolutely great, a beautiful mixture comes out,that take the best from both cultures...
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If you take the mens advice and get a hooker, one day, when you are on your death bed you will be thankful.
I agree with this post, there is nothing wrong with losing your virginity to a hooker. f**k anyone who judges you too. Those kind of people are secretly into god knows what in the bedroom. Do you really want to die never knowing whats it like to have sex?
ny101:
There are some guys out there who just put women off subconsciously. Now I don't know you, so can't say if this is true in your case but if your relationships with women are little to non-existant than you have to look at yourself and fix whatever the problem is. I'm sorry for playing the pessimistic d**k here but if you're a virgin at 37 the odds are against you unless you do a total personality shift - and really thats not going to happen too easily. Breaking the habits of having zero confidence for a long period of time is going to be hard.
lets face it, the vast majority of women will never understand this type of lonliness that men face. Women have a hell of a easier time trying to find sex then men do, they can lose their virginity whenever they want. All they would have to do is walk in a bar and I am sure some guy will oblige provided they aren't totally disgusting.
Last edited by RamCharger1985; 04-08-2010 at 07:35 PM..
I'm a 37 year old virgin in New York City. I got picked on relentlessly in school and went into a shell and gave up any hope of marriage and children or even a relationship until last December.
I worked up the courage to join an internet dating website late last year and finally got the courage to ask some women out. The three dates I've had did not work out. Two ended with them complimenting me but not wanting to see me again.
I'm of average height 5-10.5, dress decently, have no missing teeth, have a decent job and a few friends. The lack of any type of sexual experience stands out I know.
I just read some posts about women not wanting to date virgins and see someone said the age of no return for a male virgin is 30 which was 7 years ago for me. Is that true? Am I too late? I will not go to a prostitute under any circumstances no matter how horny I feel so don't ask.
I dream of having a family and moving out to Long Island. Please be honest. Is it realistic?
a friend of mine met a man who was in mid-thirties and was a virgin. She had a different history ... (one long relationship, when that ended numerous partners & one night stands etc)
Yes, she was skeptical that it would work out ... they went out for 3 years & are now married .. (and met on the net)... the right woman for you won't mind that you have not had sex. Keep meeting new people, you'll find the right one
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