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Good grief...are these women trying to open their own theme parks! WH*RELAND....where everybody gets a free ride!
No doubt this has been hashed to death on many message boards.
I think people in a relationship should just be on the same page about how they view sex, whether it is or isn't a moral issue as to how many partners is too many.
But I do want to know how people can say you shouldn't judge someone because of their "number" when the discussion is about 1 to 50 partners, but then when somebody brings up a fictitious (or maybe real) woman who supposedly has 200 or 2,300 partners then everyone jumps in and says "Eww... gross, what a wh*re".
It either doesn't matter or it does, be consistent with your moral framework. If 20 doesn't bother you, then it shouldn't matter at 2,300. For me, the "number" is just one aspect of a person that is weighed in the context of how they treat me. I don't ignore it but I don't have absolute rules about it either.
No doubt this has been hashed to death on many message boards.
I think people in a relationship should just be on the same page about how they view sex, whether it is or isn't a moral issue as to how many partners is too many.
But I do want to know how people can say you shouldn't judge someone because of their "number" when the discussion is about 1 to 50 partners, but then when somebody brings up a fictitious (or maybe real) woman who supposedly has 200 or 2,300 partners then everyone jumps in and says "Eww... gross, what a wh*re".
It either doesn't matter or it does, be consistent with your moral framework. If 20 doesn't bother you, then it shouldn't matter at 2,300. For me, the "number" is just one aspect of a person that is weighed in the context of how they treat me. I don't ignore it but I don't have absolute rules about it either.
I happen to be very consistent with my moral framework so I have no problem calling a woman who has slept with 2300 or 100,000 men a wh*ore. To me, that is someone who has no respect for herself to allow that many men to have sex with her. I suppose my bias is because I view sex as special, not to be done as a spectator sport.
While I'm not into asking men how many women they have been with before me (because I really would not want to know), if they are bragging about banging hundreds of women at the drop of a dime then I'm out of there. For me, it is either "don't ask, don't tell" or your numbers have to be within my threashold...but that's just me. Everyone is different.
I happen to be very consistent with my moral framework so I have no problem calling a woman who has slept with 2300 or 100,000 men a wh*ore. To me, that is someone who has no respect for herself to allow that many men to have sex with her. I suppose my bias is because I view sex as special, not to be done as a spectator sport.
While I'm not into asking men how many women they have been with before me (because I really would not want to know), if they are bragging about banging hundreds of women at the drop of a dime then I'm out of there. For me, it is either "don't ask, don't tell" or your numbers have to be within my threashold...but that's just me. Everyone is different.
I agree. Im a man and I have hada few. Im not really proud of it. But my SO's number does matter to a point. To me it is a sign of character.
No doubt this has been hashed to death on many message boards.
I think people in a relationship should just be on the same page about how they view sex, whether it is or isn't a moral issue as to how many partners is too many.
But I do want to know how people can say you shouldn't judge someone because of their "number" when the discussion is about 1 to 50 partners, but then when somebody brings up a fictitious (or maybe real) woman who supposedly has 200 or 2,300 partners then everyone jumps in and says "Eww... gross, what a wh*re".
It either doesn't matter or it does, be consistent with your moral framework. If 20 doesn't bother you, then it shouldn't matter at 2,300. For me, the "number" is just one aspect of a person that is weighed in the context of how they treat me. I don't ignore it but I don't have absolute rules about it either.
See thats what I was saying earlier. Everyone has a different idea on how many is alot. For some 20 is for others its 100.
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