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Old 02-09-2010, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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You can't possibly know when you're going about your life if you're going to come up against a guy that you love to bits who is hung up on numbers and it's NONE of his business anyway.
I think that's just an oxymoron and it can't happen to us. Counts like this imply certain personality and I'm not after such personalities...

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As far as I'm concerned your intimate life is your OWN and I don't want to know that you swing from the chandeliers or you've slept with 4 football teams or that you have a thing for feathers. I wasn't there, it doesn't have any impact on my relationship with you and I JUST DON'T WANT TO KNOW!
Exactly!
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Old 02-09-2010, 07:22 AM
 
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I did that this weekend only because I was being all sappy and wanted to see if I could remember something about everyone I did things with. I was able to. to me
That comes in even handier when you slow down and get some yrs. behind you. The memory isnt a sharp so you can flip thru the pages with a little smile on your face, or not or maybe a wtf was I thinking .
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Old 02-09-2010, 07:23 AM
 
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I handed out awards in my head. It was like the Academy Awards of my own sexual relations. Kanye West even showed up in the middle of it and ruined it.
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Old 02-09-2010, 07:29 AM
 
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I think that's just an oxymoron and it can't happen to us. Counts like this imply certain personality and I'm not after such personalities...
Yeah agreed. I'm sleepy. It's nearly 1.30am. It has happened to me before and I guess I was thinking that it was someone that I loved at the time BUT I also know now that I was an idiot then! Not now of course!



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Exactly!
The thing I find so amazing about this question is it's always loaded.

The kinds of people that never ask it are the ones in my experience, that you want to be with most regardless of how many previous partner's they've had. AND once someone asks it it always makes me rethink the relationship because usually not long after they start carrying on about the numbers.

Always reminds me of Jack Nicholson....

You can't handle the truth!

So maybe it's that people that can handle the truth DON'T need to ask?
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Old 02-09-2010, 08:53 AM
 
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Honestly. I think 4.

I just don't get that a person would have "tons."
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Old 02-09-2010, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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Well I have an idea. Probably within a few. I learned a long time ago that I dotn want to know how many a woman has been with. Because if I did Id probably break up with her. However I would refuse to date a woman that had so many she didnt know. Double standard? Yes. Do I care? No.
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Old 02-09-2010, 09:01 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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For someone like me I know exactly how many girls/women I have been with.

Now for people who have had tons of sexual partners......
Do they actually have a number in their head, of exactly how many they have had.
I dont have a number. I usually forget some of the women Ive had sex with. Sometimes, their memory would come back if I see someone on TV or something who reminds me of them. But I really dont have a number or care to sit down and try to come up with a number. It could very well be triple digits the number of women Ive had sex with in my lifetime. If it isnt, its probably close. Luckily, Ive never had any "accidental" pregnancies and Ive never gotten a std. Always be "safe".

Only one that matters is my wife.
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Old 02-09-2010, 09:02 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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I know how many I've been with, and it's not too many.

I spoke with one young lady a few years ago who proudly boasted she'd had intercourse with over 2300 men!! I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole.

-Steve

Last edited by SATX_GUY; 02-09-2010 at 09:28 AM.. Reason: Changed would touch that to wouldn't touch that :)
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Old 02-09-2010, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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I know how many I've been with, and it's not too many.

I spoke with one young lady a few years ago who proudly boasted she'd had intercourse with over 2300 men!! I would touch that with a ten foot pole.

-Steve

Now thats a WH*RE
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Old 02-09-2010, 09:27 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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And she was proud of of it!

There is a woman on Flickr who takes part in large group activities (for a living) and is going for 100,000 men, all without protection.

Totally INSANE!
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