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I think porn is damaging to a healthy sex drive and negatively affects a relationship with your SO. I think it distorts perspective on sex and intimacy, and encourages emotional detachment and selfish gratification.
There's a general harshness and baseness to it which is an absolute turn-off for me.
In short, it doesn't appeal to me, and I find it degrading to all people involved. It's also inherently voyeuristic, which weirds me out.
/moral high horse.
I have the same reaction. It weirds me out and turns me off too. I see nothing appealing about porn.
* How often do you watch porn?
I actually rather read a raunchy book. I love my black erotica books.
* What's your favorite porn? (Website, DVD, or whatever)
Its a series called ZANE on cable.. OMG I love it....
* How much do you spend per month on porn?
FREE FREE FREE
* Does your S.O. know about your porn watching?
Yeah he knows about my dirty books. He hates when I read them on the subway or the car.
* If not, how do you hide your porn watching from your S.O.?
If I am watching it on TV... I change the channel like a little kid... and put it on the church channel. LOL
(Only because if he catches me watching it... he's gonna wanna do what they doing on TV)
* How often do you watch porn? It depends on my mood. I tend to go through cycles where I'm into it for a while and then I go for a number of months where I don't look at it (usually because I'm too darn busy!)
* What's your favorite porn? (Website, DVD, or whatever) Website, but I'm not about to post which one.
* How much do you spend per month on porn? Good question...I have no freakin' clue! I paid an annual fee and don't recall what it was.
* Does your S.O. know about your porn watching? Yep. He's cool with it. It usually works in his favor because I tend to be hornier around the times I'm viewing it. It also gives me inspiration and ideas.
* If not, how do you hide your porn watching from your S.O.? I don't.
I think porn is damaging to a healthy sex drive and negatively affects a relationship with your SO. I think it distorts perspective on sex and intimacy, and encourages emotional detachment and selfish gratification.
There's a general harshness and baseness to it which is an absolute turn-off for me.
In short, it doesn't appeal to me, and I find it degrading to all people involved. It's also inherently voyeuristic, which weirds me out.
I disagree with everything you've said, and I think your attitude is confining and unhealthy for you and those around you. I'm sorry you are unable to let go, try new things, and live life a little more fully.
I watch porn, when the mood strikes. I also LOVE to shop. And for those who have made the comparison between men watching porn and women shopping, I can assure you that the feelings are quite different. Both good, but quite different. But, I also understand how tempting stereotypes can be...
For me, it's a form of entertainment, and foreplay, and I'm glad that I met someone who's as much of a voyeur as I am.
I understand why some people don't like it. For whatever reason, it's not their bag, and that's cool. Key is to find someone who feels the same way you do, and respects you for your feelings.
I disagree with everything you've said, and I think your attitude is confining and unhealthy for you and those around you. I'm sorry you are unable to let go, try new things, and live life a little more fully.
It's unhealthy not to like porn? Oh, that's funny.
Oh do tell how not watching porn is unhealthy for me and my family? Porn is nothing but voyeurism. How is voyeurism healthy?
Just because we don't like to watch others having sex doesn't mean we don't like to try new things.
I just don't get the appeal of it. The men look like gay dudes that will leave you sorely disappointed in most other men's trouser snakes and the women look like they used to be men or carrots. Another overated thing that usually holds appeal to the frustrated and sheltered. Why watch? Why not just do?
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Both good, but quite different. But, I also understand how tempting stereotypes can be...