Shouldn`t it be 50/50 in a marriage?

[SKP440]

Originally Posted by Ivorytickler

Well, I'm not into the man runs the home but I think women need to respect him enough to let him parent the way he believes he should parent. I see so many women who criticize everything he does and then whine that he doesn't do enough. I wouldn't either if my husband criticized everything I did. They want, no, they feel entitled to his help but they only want it their way. When he doesn't do it their way, they badger him until he only does what he has to to get by and then they complain he doesn't do enough. These dads can't win.

I would be one of those Dads!!

[Sam82]

I don't live with my bf. Before he got a new job with crazy hours, he was in my apt about 3 days a week. He would help clean and cook. Now we only have a day and a half together. I do the cooking when he visits. I clean while he is not here. I'm not mad at all. I don't want either or us to spend our one full day together cleaning other than the basics like dishes (which he'll often do for me).

[yankeegirl313]

Communication is a big part on this subject as well. Without that, why hell, ya` might as well hang it up!
Have to have that going for you both, so you can try to be on the same page. It takes two........