Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
man stop worrying about her. you will meet plenty of other women in college. and im sure some of them will also break your heart. why women do the things they do? who knows? you are only making yourself feel worse by wondering what you did, or why she did it.
it was 8 months ago. the best thing to do is make up a story. anything she would tell you might not even be the answer you are looking for anyways.
so what you do is make up a story. she didnt want to go to prom because she was shallow and she liked to play games. she ditched you at the last minute because she felt intimidated being with a bunch of upper classmen. she gave you the cold shoulder because she didnt know how to truly express her care for you.
dont worry what her motives were. at the end of the day she mistreated you. you can blame it on her youth and immaturity. but i would blame it on the fact that shes not so nice of a person.
simple as that. she is not a nice person. she plays emotional games. she is childish.
why do you really want to be friends with someone like that.
let it go. let her go.
now go get your heartbroken by some college women!!! at least they will put out before dumping you.