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Old 11-27-2008, 10:42 PM
 
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Not to mention I have this thing about my personal space when out in public. I just don't like anyone being that close to me. Weird, I know.......
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There is always one person that reads waaay to much into what I am saying. Let's keep it simple. I think you know what I am talking about.
Hey...I'm no mind reader, okay?? You said "I have this thing about my personal space when out in public. I just don't like anyone being that close to me." "What your're talking about"? Ummm...no. I mean...hey, I'm all ears...but no - obviously I DON'T know what you're talking about.

Tell me how else to read it????
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Old 11-27-2008, 10:55 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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Hey, just let it go. Let's not get into a debate over a very simple misunderstanding.

Thanks for your reply



Ron

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Hey...I'm no mind reader, okay?? You said "I have this thing about my personal space when out in public. I just don't like anyone being that close to me." "What your're talking about"? Ummm...no. I mean...hey, I'm all ears...but no - obviously I DON'T know what you're talking about.

Tell me how else to read it????
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Old 11-27-2008, 10:57 PM
 
Location: southern california
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ok calm down, take your medication, and count to ten, nobody wants to "touch you".
dont take meds.
look at my profile, i looked at yours.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:00 PM
 
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What is your point?

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dont take meds.
look at my profile, i looked at yours.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:10 PM
 
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I just jumped into this thread with only reading the title, but would like to say about P.A. (public affection) is unecessary. why? I'll tell you

1st, I wouldnt let any man be frenching and fingering me in public. Theres plenty of time and place to do that elsewhere. I dont want to be even holding your hand all day. I want to watch the movie, dance, shake it and walk around.

I see people just hugging and loving all in public and think..this relationship isnt going anywhere. Its lust. Im sure before you went to the mall you kissed, f*cked and did whatever beforehand. If not, make that man wait until after, dont give him all your love so soon girl!

I feel uncomfortable if a guy is all over me in public. I need my space. Dont worry, I'll give you all you ask for once we get home (or the beach, car, park, you call it)
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:12 PM
 
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fingering you in public? Ewwwwwwww that is so revolting.

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I just jumped into this thread with only reading the title, but would like to say about P.A. (public affection) is unecessary. why? I'll tell you

1st, I wouldnt let any man be frenching and fingering me in public. Theres plenty of time and place to do that elsewhere. I dont want to be even holding your hand all day. I want to watch the movie, dance, shake it and walk around.

I see people just hugging and loving all in public and think..this relationship isnt going anywhere. Its lust. Im sure before you went to the mall you kissed, f*cked and did whatever beforehand. If not, make that man wait until after, dont give him all your love so soon girl!

I feel uncomfortable if a guy is all over me in public. I need my space. Dont worry, I'll give you all you ask for once we get home.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:14 PM
 
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Holding hands and a small kiss are fine but anyhing more is not in my comfort zone.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:15 PM
 
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I was bumping and grinding with a guy at a mixed dance club once and LOL he had a pop tent. It was hilarious.

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Holding hands and a small kiss are fine but anyhing more is not in my comfort zone.
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:17 PM
 
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Up to a point.

I will kiss, grab, poke, touch, hold hands.. etc. Some people take it too far though
I agree with him too...its ok to be a little naughty (makes the other girls/guys jealous with your hot man) but kissing longer than a pop kiss gets over the edge and makes a girl look like a ****...I wouldnt be caught dead making out in the middle of the mall like some of those other cheap whores do
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Old 11-27-2008, 11:19 PM
 
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That is so mean.

I was caught alive and well dancing and making out with a hot dude I had just met at a dance club. Yes we were deep tongue kissing in front of many people too. 2/3rds of them were straight. Then I did it again with another guy that I was "dating". Those were the days. Now I'm a hermit and don't go out much at all. lol.

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I agree with him too...its ok to be a little naughty (makes the other girls/guys jealous with your hot man) but kissing longer than a pop kiss gets over the edge and makes a girl look like a ****...I wouldnt be caught dead making out in the middle of the mall like some of those other cheap whores do
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