Is there a reason why no woman want to date me? Is it becuase im different? Have aspergers? (marriages, singles)
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I think you are very nice looking and, obviously smart, since you have a good education. My advice is the same as if you did not have Asperger's. You must go about your life doing what interests you and what makes you happy and grow as a person. This way, you are becoming the best you, possible, so when a woman comes along you will be ready.
If a woman never comes along, you will still be involved in the things you enjoy.
My nephew has Asperger's too. He graduated from a top engineering school and is working in the Boston area. I think he would like to have a girlfriend, but he never has. In the mean time, he enjoys working on the house he bought, and his hobbies.
Holy ****, I just read your post 167, and for God's sake don't do it. Change your phone number. Do you have parents? If so, I hope you listen to them.
I do have parents and they think marrying this girl with all her expensive spending and debts will get me into trouble.
My parents have told me her debt and spending problems will become mine as well if I marry her.
They are right.
I mean, if you're in love with her then you take on the debts and try to change what you can about the habits, but if you're just worried about finding someone, there are a lot of fish in the sea and you are too young to give up finding someone you might be in love with and even if that doesn't happen and you end up settling for someone you aren't, you can find someone without this (serious) problem.
Edit: You say she's Peruvian? If you mean Peruvian-American, cool. If you mean Peruvian-Peruvian, I'd be seriously wary of marrying someone who needs a green card -- I've seen that end poorly much more often then I've seen that end well.
I mean, if you're in love with her then you take on the debts and try to change what you can about the habits, but if you're just worried about finding someone, there are a lot of fish in the sea and you are too young to give up finding someone you might be in love with and even if that doesn't happen and you end up settling for someone you aren't, you can find someone without this (serious) problem.
Edit: You say she's Peruvian? If you mean Peruvian-American, cool. If you mean Peruvian-Peruvian, I'd be seriously wary of marrying someone who needs a green card -- I've seen that end poorly much more then I've seen that end well.
A more cynical person would think you are pulling our legs. If you truly did graduate from college (your spelling would indicate otherwise) you must have some ability to think logically. If so, you already know the answers to the questions you're asking.
Listen to them. You sound so sweet and vulnerable, and not thinking objectively.
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Originally Posted by annonymous0381
My parents have told me her debt and spending problems will become mine as well if I marry her.
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