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Old 04-15-2013, 10:56 PM
 
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I'm socially conservative but I understand that you can not require someone to use birth control. It is an ethical slippery slope to go down and that is why it hasn't been done yet. Same is true for adoption. There is no alternative to welfare. The best the U.S. has come up with is stricter child support laws. In Europe, they have even heavier welfare systems than the U.S.

I agree that the media today does not help people overall be more responsible though.
It's really a mess because I have known people with several kids by different dads and none are paying for the kid, taxpayers are. It's sick to me when I go to the store and see a mom with several kids on welfare. I wish I knew what to do but yes part of it is the media. Look at how it is reporting Kanye West and Kim Kardashian's baby or Brangelinas kids or other unwed celebs.

 
Old 04-15-2013, 11:05 PM
 
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If you don't want to stay with her then why are you banging her?
 
Old 04-15-2013, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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If a man gets a woman pregnant and leaves here while she is pregnant in a boyfriend girlfriend situation, what is your opinion of that man?
Why did he leave her?

[knowing this is important]
 
Old 04-15-2013, 11:52 PM
 
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It's really a mess because I have known people with several kids by different dads and none are paying for the kid, taxpayers are. It's sick to me when I go to the store and see a mom with several kids on welfare. I wish I knew what to do but yes part of it is the media. Look at how it is reporting Kanye West and Kim Kardashian's baby or Brangelinas kids or other unwed celebs.
I think you should have a baby.
 
Old 04-16-2013, 12:02 AM
 
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I think you should have a baby.
Well you never know with me and Taco Man. Then again he is definitely the marry them type if I became pregnant and not married (though he wears a purity rung so who knows).
 
Old 04-16-2013, 01:09 AM
 
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Why did he leave her?

[knowing this is important]
typical stuff lets say nagging and not enough sex. Finding other women attractive . . .
 
Old 04-16-2013, 07:18 AM
 
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Few men walk away. .
Any documentation to back this up? Because in real life, I have found that men are great fathers when with the mother, yet after the break up they become less so. I have a few friends and myself, that have had the fathers disappear without a trace. No money sent either.
 
Old 04-16-2013, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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typical stuff lets say nagging and not enough sex. Finding other women attractive . . .
I cannot respect such a man.

[and would minimize all contact with him]
 
Old 04-16-2013, 09:00 PM
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Location: NC/SC Border Patrol
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If a man gets a woman pregnant and leaves here while she is pregnant in a boyfriend girlfriend situation, what is your opinion of that man?
A man who would leave his offspring is not to be trusted and should never be put in a position of responsibility because he is irresponsible.
 
Old 04-16-2013, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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A man who would leave his offspring is not to be trusted and should never be put in a position of responsibility because he is irresponsible.
Cool story.
Nothing in the OP indicates that this man is leaving his offspring, though.
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