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25% looks, 30% energy, 20% charisma, 25% actual words used.
If you seem interesting, and didn't lead with something that comes across as sketchy, I'll chat for a bit. Being attractive to me helps, but if you seem boring, you have zero chance.
At the whole inital appraoch at the bar, I am not evaluating if I want to go on a date with you tomorrow, but if it is going to be worth my time to get to know you better.
There are a lot of potential outcomes when you meet someone new at a bar:
1. date
2. friend
3. business associate
4. date for a friend
5. good person to know for other reasons (large social circle, good info on the local scene, travel advice.....)
If you don't come across as annoying, it makes sense to have a chat in my book!
***I am also more social than average
Hmmmm....I'd rate it more like this:
40% Confidence
30% Social skills
20% Style
10% Looks
That's one thread by some random guy. Also, just because the girls showed interest doesn't mean that they would actually follow through on it when push came to shove.
Also, didn't you say that you're very good looking? How's that working out for ya?
Numbers don't mean anything in today's America where women flake on a whim. They will find any excuse to flake on you. So if I were you I would focus on having sex with her on the first meet then get the number if the logistics are bad for you.
This PUA lives in NYC and he is good looking, tall, went to Harvard so he is really intelligent, etc. yet he only has sex with 1 woman for every 11 numbers he gets. So at best you are going to need 10 numbers to find a successful woman.
wow there is no way, I live in flake city usa and I get on average 3/10 but girls will give their numbers to you and then flake on you. I would rather them say no.
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