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I was reading a book about substance abuse. A high % of womanizers end up developing drug and alcohol problems. Eventually the high a man get's from having sex with multiple women wears off. He will soon have a needle in his arm to feed his sick ego.
The "men" I've known who get away with this seek women who are unattractive, have low self-esteem, and are desperate. And even then, they do not get away with it for very long. The woman leaves and the guy can't figure out why.
The type of woman you are seeking is herself strong enough to dictate the terms, and your terms are unattractive and unconscionable.
I suppose you might get someone to play along temporarily, until she finishes school or otherwise gets back on her feet.
Sorry but you are wrong. Olga was beautiful.
The woman who I know in vegas who picks girls for her husband is about 40--he is 55 ish--but it's obvious that she was a looker when she was younger.
I'm not sure what you are lookin for. I don't know any woman that would be okay with this arrangement. If you are unable to find anyone in you real life who is willing to agree to this with - what makes you think someone here will have an answer for you? The only thing you are offering a woman is money - and there are a lot of men that can offer money AND monogamy.
In most American women's eyes no. The women who do tolerate this are usually with wealthy men.
And then there are the potential pitfalls of this arrangement like STDs (condoms don't protect against everything), illegitimate children, crazy mistresses etc.
Most women don't want to risk having that in their lives. They're not going to put up with that unless they're getting some tangible benefit. Being a "great guy" isn't enough especially when what constitutes as a "great guy" is highly subjective in the first place.
You are right.
But even if only 10% of women are kosher with this it's still millions of women who are game.
I was reading a book about substance abuse. A high % of womanizers end up developing drug and alcohol problems. Eventually the high a man get's from having sex with multiple women wears off. He will soon have a needle in his arm to feed his sick ego.
maybe, but men like bill clinton, Elliot spitzer, jfk, gary hart..and countless others...wait, jfk was a....
I dont know why anyone would wanna be a politician...too much scrutiny.
High risk behavior can include many partners but to say liking many women will make one a heroin addict is beyond the pale.
I'm not sure what you are lookin for. I don't know any woman that would be okay with this arrangement. If you are unable to find anyone in you real life who is willing to agree to this with - what makes you think someone here will have an answer for you? The only thing you are offering a woman is money - and there are a lot of men that can offer money AND monogamy.
I bet you don't know a lot of things with all due respect. Everyone has different constraints and confines.
I once worked for a married partner at my consulting firm that had a girlfriend in each region of the country and was not shy about inviting them to team dinners each Tuesday...it got really weird when his daughter was a summer intern in the practice.
And you don't know what I offer. I don't offer money that's for sure. i am quite stingy unless it's with a LTR.
I do fun dates but that's it.
It's best not to speak about what you do not know. It just makes a fool out of the poster.
Anyway, this bashing is lame and not germane to my question.
You are looking for someone with low self esteem...those are the sort of women most likely to accept your arrangement.
Why do you call women out on being prudish for not accepting such an arrangement, when you yourself are prudish in not allowing women the same liberties.
I once worked for a married partner at my consulting firm that had a girlfriend in each region of the country and was not shy about inviting them to team dinners each Tuesday...it got really weird when his daughter was a summer intern in the practice.
He sounds like a pig...he can't even keep his dalliances out of the view of his daughter?
I bet you don't know a lot of things with all due respect. Everyone has different constraints and confines.
I once worked for a married partner at my consulting firm that had a girlfriend in each region of the country and was not shy about inviting them to team dinners each Tuesday...it got really weird when his daughter was a summer intern in the practice.
And you don't know what I offer. I don't offer money that's for sure. i am quite stingy unless it's with a LTR.
I do fun dates but that's it.
It's best not to speak about what you do not know. It just makes a fool out of the poster.
Anyway, this bashing is lame and not germane to my question.
I'm not bashing you. I'm simply asking what answer you hope to find here. If you are unable to find someone willing to enter into the type of relationship with you - what do you think someone here can tell you that will make a difference? You want to have lots of women but have your "main squeeze" remain faithful to you. Like I said, I don't know anyone who would be okay with that arrangement - no matter how you try to sell it. I know couples that have open relationships but they both can have other partners. I know of sugar daddy type relationships but they are either both monogamous or both not. You want to have your cake and eat it, too while she doesn't. Most women in this country will not be okay with that unless you are a celebrity.
But even if only 10% of women are kosher with this it's still millions of women who are game.
Well if so many women are okay with it, then why are you on here asking Americans how to circumvent our culture? I still maintain that this is an American bashing thread b/c I think you'll figure it out just fine on your own but you thought it would be entertaining to throw in our faces how weird we are compared to the rest of the world. Well guess what? Most of us are just fine with that. Oh and funny how when someone says something you don't like, you order them to get back on topic. Must be your alpha male testosterone talking.
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