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Old 09-02-2012, 11:50 AM
 
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Originally Posted by JrzDefector View Post
Wow. You sound like such a great friend! She's out of an 8-year relationship and sleeping with everyone who falls in her path, and you're thinking not "wow, I'm worried about her self-destructive tendencies" but "how can I get in on the action?"

Classy!

Can't rep you right now, but I would. This, exactly.

 
Old 09-02-2012, 11:57 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Sounds like she is being less picky and lowering her standards like some of you guys want so much.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:06 PM
 
Location: not where you are
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Originally Posted by TaoistDude View Post
Maybe it's shock and awe!

Anyway, her friend's behavior - if true - seems beyond what I'd consider normal or healthy. Since I don't know her friend, I'll avoid judgment and just add that I would't do this even if I could.
Agree, seems the woman is dealing with some avoidance issues; using hooking up like some use alcohol or drugs, etc. Very sad.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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This is what my problem is. There are a lot of women like this one who like to just practice making babies with every dude they see regardless of if they meet a high standard and then when a guy like me comes along who actually has high standards, I get shut down because I notice how sloppy these types of women are which is unattractive to me.

But then all the nice women call me arrogant. I just can't win.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:31 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
How many posts and OP's have we had complaining about women being too tight with their favors, asking why they can't give it up more easily, and complaining that women "control access to sex"? For those of you who fall into that category of poster, Gentlemen: this (OP's description) is what your dream woman looks like. Deal.

can't rep you. this is so true! They want it both ways and then they don't. they don't know what they want. who even cares anymore.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:33 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by JrzDefector View Post
Wow. You sound like such a great friend! She's out of an 8-year relationship and sleeping with everyone who falls in her path, and you're thinking not "wow, I'm worried about her self-destructive tendencies" but "how can I get in on the action?"

Classy!

there's always men willing to use dumb women for sex. that's her problem, not his.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:34 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Because I've been sleeping with the "best friend" for 3-4 years now. As I said before, she pretty much tells me everything about everyone she knows; especially after a few drinks.
Could the girl you're sleeping with be exaggerating and telling you this so you won't mess around with her promiscuous "best friend"? Is she trying to potentially turn you off on her, especially since she's single and therefore available now?
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:36 PM
 
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How common is this? 4 months ago, she broke up with her bf after an 8 year relationship (they met in college) and started meeting guys from online. Last night, I found out from her best friend that she's slept with at least 30 guys during that time period.

I realize chicks usually go through withdrawal after a breakup, but is this kind of withdrawal extremely abnormal or what? Anyone know someone else like this?
Maybe her "friend" is not the best source for this info. Ask her yourself, but tell her where you got the lead.
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:40 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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they don't know what they want. who even cares anymore.
ROFL!! There's that ascerbic wit I've been missing the last couple of weeks! LOL! Great to have you back!
FORUM ALERT! The DOLL is back! Misogynysts, MRA's, and general malcontents of the male persuasion, enter at your own risk. You have been warned.
LOL!
 
Old 09-02-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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ROFL!! There's that ascerbic wit I've been missing the last couple of weeks! LOL! Great to have you back!
FORUM ALERT! The DOLL is back! Misogynysts, MRA's, and general malcontents of the male persuasion, enter at your own risk. You have been warned.
LOL!

Ruth are you drunk? LOL.

I'm just saying it's a different story every time which you pointed out. On one hand 'boo hoo women are controlling sex and make us work for it' and on the other hand it's 'they're all tramps.' so who even cares anymore....and what is an MRA?
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