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Old 09-01-2012, 03:39 PM
 
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Promiscuity is gross no matter the gender.

 
Old 09-01-2012, 03:49 PM
 
Location: back in Boston
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She's a grown woman, she can do what she wants.
 
Old 09-01-2012, 03:50 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Promiscuity is gross no matter the gender.
not as gross as an 8 year relationship

ill take frequent random hookups anyday. much more civilized.
 
Old 09-01-2012, 03:52 PM
 
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How common is this? 4 months ago, she broke up with her bf after an 8 year relationship (they met in college) and started meeting guys from online. Last night, I found out from her best friend that she's slept with at least 30 guys during that time period.

I realize chicks usually go through withdrawal after a breakup, but is this kind of withdrawal extremely abnormal or what? Anyone know someone else like this?

Are you wondering because you are jealous or just because you are wondering if this is normal after a long term relationship breakup? Humans deal with loss in various ways and this is obviously her way of dealing with the loss of her long term relationship. Anyway, how do you know for sure she has done this? Are you there? Have you seen her having sex with every man she meets? Bottom line, none of your business and why do you really care.
 
Old 09-01-2012, 03:58 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Default She's not handling it well.

That sounds like more then just being promiscuous. At that level, Even being careful does not decrease the risk much of contracting something or becoming pregnant. Plus i doubt she is getting to know these guys so there is the risk of one or more being dangerous, I am talking about the person themselves.
 
Old 09-01-2012, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Sadly, some men view women in one of two categories:

1) Too loose

2) Too prude

Seems like there can be no in-betweens. Ladies, sometimes you can't win, so just be true to yourself and you will never lose.
Preach it my sister from another mister!
 
Old 09-01-2012, 04:13 PM
 
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Philly area
Set her up with TV, and she will be back to normal shortly after!
 
Old 09-01-2012, 04:20 PM
 
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Are you wondering because you are jealous or just because you are wondering if this is normal after a long term relationship breakup? Humans deal with loss in various ways and this is obviously her way of dealing with the loss of her long term relationship. Anyway, how do you know for sure she has done this? Are you there? Have you seen her having sex with every man she meets? Bottom line, none of your business and why do you really care.
What am I jealous about? I'll probably have a chance to hook up with her in 3 weeks during Irish weekend down at the NJ shore (we're staying at the same house and I'll be 1 of the 2 guys in the house who are single). I just wanted to know if this is somewhat normal.
 
Old 09-01-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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What am I jealous about? I'll probably have a chance to hook up with her in 3 weeks during Irish weekend down at the NJ shore (we're staying at the same house and I'll be 1 of the 2 guys in the house who are single). I just wanted to know if this is somewhat normal.
Wow. You sound like such a great friend! She's out of an 8-year relationship and sleeping with everyone who falls in her path, and you're thinking not "wow, I'm worried about her self-destructive tendencies" but "how can I get in on the action?"

Classy!
 
Old 09-01-2012, 05:19 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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Wow. You sound like such a great friend! She's out of an 8-year relationship and sleeping with everyone who falls in her path, and you're thinking not "wow, I'm worried about her self-destructive tendencies" but "how can I get in on the action?"

Classy!
Exactly. Unbelieveable. Quite sad, but some how not surprising
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