How soon after meeting a woman on a date is it appropriate for a man to get physically intimate with her? (movies, single)
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they don't even care. first date, second date, it's all the same. just trying to get from point A to point B as quickly as possible, can't be bothered otherwise.
It's unfair to make this generalization. Some women like to keep a man as a friend zone pet forever too.
That's something guys have to watch out for, or they end up wasting a lot of time and money for nothing.
Why can they be so easily talked into providing this "service", without any thought to what they should be getting from the experience? Maybe they feel they're not ready for that experience? Trying to understand the mentality, here.
Because young girls are all about getting the guy today. It's the "popularity" thing...on steroids. The guys talk them into it...and the girls fall for it. I have a teenage son and lots of teens in the neighborhood that I talk to. Girls today...I can't believe them. I don't get how some of these parents have raised their kids.
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Originally Posted by UnexpectedError
There was a guy I met through a friend once who was so eager to go out, we met for lunch the day after he contacted me. It went okay and we had already set a date for a couple days later, at the end of which he kissed me (and how tragic that he had nice lips and was a horrendous kisser) and kept saying softly to me "Why didn't you call me? You scared me. You should call me."
I should have run right then and there, or maybe after he left a flower and hershey kiss on my windshield with a note saying he just wanted to be able to give me a kiss before work. These are things that sound kind of romantic when they happen to other people or on TV but flipping scary when it happens to you. Boys, use a little common sense.
You scared me? Sounds over-protective (or over-controlling) even for a mother. Sounds like something those guys who imprison women in their basement would say.
Blegh, I'm no prude but the first date is a strictly "getting to know you" date. You don't know me, why on earth would you be trying to hold my hand or kiss me or whisper sweet nothings into my ear? Any guy who tries to get physical or romantic with me that soon is labeled a sleaze looking for action or a potential stalker and it's time for me to bail. If things go well, you might get a hug at the end of the date but let's save the kiss for date #2, at least.
Stupid poll and question.
I agree with the above, for the most part, if I don't know the guy.
I would differentiate a person who you don't know well with someone you already know. Your comfort levels would be in different places and all bets might be off with someone you already know.
Again, stupid question.
There are just too many variables. I'm not going to get graphic, just leaving it at that.
You scared me? Sounds over-protective (or over-controlling) even for a mother. Sounds like something those guys who imprison women in their basement would say.
And if he had had a basement, he probably would have. I hate the weepy romantic type, they always seem to be trying to imitate what they think they're supposed to be doing instead of experiencing the moment.
I may be a bit harsh, though. I've noticed a pattern on my part of feeling that the guys I date like me way too much, way too soon.
It's unfair to make this generalization. Some women like to keep a man as a friend zone pet forever too.
That's something guys have to watch out for, or they end up wasting a lot of time and money for nothing.
so they are weighing their options in that they don't want to spends any additional money or wastes any extra time on a woman they're not going to get laid from, right?
How come men never give a woman oral on the first date? I always hear about women doing this and getting nothing in return
Alot of men like to "say" they were orally satisfied on the first date. Who knows In my experience alot of men are quite willing to reciprocate but on the first date?? I wouldn't know. I date gentlemen Or perhaps they recognize I'm a lady Dang girls a little romance and anticipation adds value
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