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Old 05-17-2012, 02:22 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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....most of the time, things get into the heat of the moment and sex is rather unplanned, right? Well, I have a major OCD-ish problem with toilet seats and girls usually sit on toilet seats. I would be thinking too much about whether or not her buttocks are dirty than actually enjoying her buttocks.

If it were happening in my bed, I'd be worried and thinking about how my bedsheets are getting dirty (not the good kind of dirty) and contaminated.

I don't know. How would I deal with this? Anyone else think this way? Does anyone have a significant other who is like me? How do you two deal with it?
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:24 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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You realize it's impossible for her to sit on a toilet seat and have sex with you right?

She pulls her pants back up when she stands up, and so where does what you believe to be skin contamination go? Into her jeans?

Have you ever taken a microbiology class? There are more germs on the keyboard you're typing on than her butt has after she stands up from sitting on the toilet.

And don't forget men sit on toilet seats also so I guess your sheets must be terribly contaminated, and for sure you shower after every single time you have a bowel movement.

Please seek help.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:24 PM
 
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It would be kind of funny if this was findly185's boyfriend.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:25 PM
 
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....most of the time, things get into the heat of the moment and sex is rather unplanned, right?
Not really.

Every woman I've had sex with, the first time I tried they shot me down.

It took me a couple of tries to get there, but not too many.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:30 PM
 
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Um....Soviet? You've asked how you should deal with this, so it is only logical to ask the question:

Have you seen a therapist about this? If not, you need to. If you have, you may consider getting a better one to help you work through this.

Sex isn't usually unplanned - but "planned or unplanned" is not going to solve your issue (unless you plan to bring a bottle of rubbing alcohol to swab her down with or something).
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:33 PM
 
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....most of the time, things get into the heat of the moment and sex is rather unplanned, right? Well, I have a major OCD-ish problem with toilet seats and girls usually sit on toilet seats. I would be thinking too much about whether or not her buttocks are dirty than actually enjoying her buttocks.

If it were happening in my bed, I'd be worried and thinking about how my bedsheets are getting dirty (not the good kind of dirty) and contaminated.

I don't know. How would I deal with this? Anyone else think this way? Does anyone have a significant other who is like me? How do you two deal with it?
OMG have you read my thread about my bf?!? LOL you two could be the same person (not the ass thing but the germ thing)
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:33 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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You realize it's impossible for her to sit on a toilet seat and have sex with you right?

She pulls her pants back up when she stands up, and so where does what you believe to be skin contamination go? Into her jeans?

Have you ever taken a microbiology class? There are more germs on the keyboard you're typing on than her butt has after she stands up from sitting on the toilet.

And don't forget men sit on toilet seats also so I guess your sheets must be terribly contaminated, and for sure you shower after every single time you have a bowel movement.

Please seek help.
I actually do shower after each BM. I usually have enough control of my body to time it right. And if I have to go prematurely, then I just take a shower before I climb into bed. Simple solution.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:34 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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OMG have you read my thread about my bf?!? LOL you two could be the same person (not the ass thing but the germ thing)
No, I haven't read anything. Which one was it? I was just inspired to make this post after having a dream about....possibilities.
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:35 PM
 
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No, I haven't read anything. Which one was it? I was just inspired to make this post after having a dream about....possibilities.
Title:Strange Sex Question
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Old 05-17-2012, 02:36 PM
 
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It would be kind of funny if this was findly185's boyfriend.

I was just thinking that!
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