Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Heinous! Throw her and her brats out. She has been using you for a ride, you have been supporting her and her kids. Get the meanest attorney you can find. She has been using you, and lying to you. You don't owe her a dime. Time to take care of yourself, and get rid of this loser user. You sound like a great guy, you can do much better than being with a lying, using, b**** like her.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I have known women like this, they are pure evil, and absolutely sociopathic. She does not care about you. YOU CAN DO BETTER.
Well if the OP loves her, I wouldn't call this a hanging offense. Talk it out, see what's going on inside her head. See if she'll lay it all out and be honest.
I don't know Coolhand, this is a HUGE betrayal.
And she doesn't even have the decency to admit what she did was a big deal!
For me, she'd have to be REALLY remorseful and extremely apologetic about lying to me for years, and wasting what is probably by now thousands of dollars on a fertilitydoctor, before I'd even consider staying married to her.
If all else was going perfect aside from the big lie, I'd say have a sit down and talk it out. I'm not saying this is a little white lie, but I know couples who have worked it out through worse than this.
If all else was going perfect aside from the big lie, I'd say have a sit down and talk it out. I'm not saying this is a little white lie, but I know couples who have worked it out through worse than this.
Yes, but wouldn't you agree that when couples have "worked through worse" that that was because BOTH partners admit what they've done wrong and work to understand the other persons point of view and feelings??
She doesn't seem willing to do any of that according to our OP
Heinous! Throw her and her brats out. She has been using you for a ride, you have been supporting her and her kids. Get the meanest attorney you can find. She has been using you, and lying to you. You don't owe her a dime. Time to take care of yourself, and get rid of this loser user. You sound like a great guy, you can do much better than being with a lying, using, b**** like her.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I have known women like this, they are pure evil, and absolutely sociopathic. She does not care about you. YOU CAN DO BETTER.
Yes, but wouldn't you agree that when couples have "worked through worse" that that was because BOTH partners admit what they've done wrong and work to understand the other persons point of view and feelings??
She doesn't seem willing to do any of that according to our OP
Right now she's like a child who has been caught in a lie. Self preservation kicks in first. Sometimes people just shut down when trapped in a lie, and it takes a little coaxing to get them to come clean and discuss it further. It seems the OP has a lot invested here, with her and the stepkids. I think it might be worth trying to get her side of the story. Even if it means an ultimatum.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
