How to sustain a healthy black relationship??? (woman, dance, younger)

[Morphous01]

Originally Posted by 2RUGGED4YOU

That's circa 1920's for the non guitar people!LOL.........

Hmm, right around the time of the Black Wallstreet (Greenwood Oklahoma).

[samston]

what is a "black relationship"? last i heard, all races were the same species.

The basic issues that apply to all relationships would apply to yours. It transcends race.

[Beliciano]

Originally Posted by samston

what is a "black relationship"? last i heard, all races were the same species.

The basic issues that apply to all relationships would apply to yours. It transcends race.

I agree with samston, we black men are just like everyone else.

[Morphous01]

Originally Posted by NorCal Dude

my biggest complaint about black women was that they were like all women.

Yea, I know. I hate that I can't differentiate various people by thier respective cultures or customs. Nearly every woman (and man) eventually falls victim to the homogenization of the American way of life.

[Morphous01]

Originally Posted by samston

what is a "black relationship"? last i heard, all races were the same species.

The basic issues that apply to all relationships would apply to yours. It transcends race.

Originally Posted by brooklynight

I agree with samston, we black men are just like everyone else.

No we are not. Different racial groups are very different. So much so the future of medicine is going to be specific to your particular race.

[Beliciano]

Originally Posted by Morphous01

No we are not. Different racial groups are very different. So much so the future of medicine is going to be specific to your particular race.

I meant in terms of what we need from women. I meant to say we need reciprocity.

[sun queen]

I think any relationship is going to take communication, understanding, compromise, love and plenty of hott nasty **x to keep it going strong. I think love transcends color...

[sun queen]

Originally Posted by Morphous01

Yea, I know. I hate that I can't differentiate various people by thier respective cultures or customs. Nearly every woman (and man) eventually falls victim to the homogenization of the American way of life.

Hey I like your star and I agree with ur perspective.

[Morphous01]

Originally Posted by hippy4m3

What are some complaints that black men have with black women??

Thanks.

My biggest complaint about BW, is that, after say about age 24-25, they stop caring about their weight and they don't work out to stay in shape. EVEN THE TRACK GIRLS!

I NEVER see BW in gyms or at the local parks getting a good solid workout in like the Asian or Caucasian women do. I only see Black men staying in shape.

I really need to give credit to Caucasian and Asian women, they watch what they eat, and they work out HARD (look at all the Caucasian tri athletes and marathon runners)!

And it pays off, I see buff/slender 30-40 year old Caucasian/Asian women all the time. But Americanized BW on the other hand, like I said, after a certain age, they just stop caring about their weight and only focus on their hair, nails and clothing attire.


So do your man a favor, STAY IN SHAPE. Don't give your man any reasons to wander off.

[Chowhound]

The Op should have phrased the question a little differently, sorta makes blacks seem like some separate beings that don't have the same basic relationship requirement.

I'm assuming the OP is non-black???