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Old 07-24-2009, 07:09 PM
 
Location: southern california
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it would be wrong to then complain of being treated like an object.
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Old 07-24-2009, 07:10 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Is it wrong of me to stop by my boyfriends house, have sex with him, then immediately go home. Am I obligated to stay awhile because we had sex?
Whats you opinion?

Three Vists like this a week without being in a relationship would be heaven
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Old 07-24-2009, 07:14 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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No. Nothing wrong with what you did at all.
I had some time to think about this. I changed my mind. Yes. There is something wrong with doing that.

This wreaks of one of those so called "cool" things that women who have mostly guy friends and no close girlfriends do or say that they have done to guys to make the guys think of them as "cool chick to hang out with".

If it was just some guy you were banging, no problem, but its your boyfriend. Did you just say "thanks" then got up and left? I think I would have a problem with it if it happened to me.
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Old 07-24-2009, 07:15 PM
 
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Three Vists like this a week without being in a relationship would be heaven
Obviously the term girlfriend/boyfriend has eluded you again.

noting that a single guy is posting in a relationship forum on a Friday night
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Old 07-24-2009, 07:16 PM
 
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Is it wrong of me to stop by my boyfriends house, have sex with him, then immediately go home. Am I obligated to stay awhile because we had sex?
Whats you opinion?
I'm not a guy....but it sounds good to me.

Now it would be wrong if you left his house, and went to another guys house...
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Old 07-24-2009, 07:19 PM
 
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Hang on a second, are you for.......real? Or is this heaven?

Maybe come by for a quicky around breakfast time also. I'll just put my Cheerios on your back.
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Old 07-24-2009, 08:04 PM
 
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I may be missing something here but a dude who is interested in a relationship wouldn't want a chick to stop by f*ck and walk out. That's not a g/f that is a hoefriend.

I don't know if I was in a serious relationship with someone that would be cause for break up .
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Old 07-27-2009, 08:03 AM
 
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Ask yourself. Would a woman complain about this treatment by a man?

Of course.

But don't worry, men are more easily satisfied by sex than conversation.
I know women are offended by this a lot, thats why I wondered mostly what men thought.
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Old 07-27-2009, 08:09 AM
 
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If it was just some guy you were banging, no problem, but its your boyfriend. Did you just say "thanks" then got up and left? I think I would have a problem with it if it happened to me.
We have been dating little over a yr. Sure I said thanks baby before we got out of the bedroom.

Everytime I stop by after work he wants me to spend the night. Its a pain for me during the week because I have to go home in the morning before work and I have things to do at home. So when I left after having sex hes like are you just going to eff and run.
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Old 07-27-2009, 08:19 AM
 
Location: USA
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I know women are offended by this a lot, thats why I wondered mostly what men thought.
I'm not offended in the least. . .it's your BF, you can do it how, where and when you want. I would think that most females have been in this situation at some point and it holds no shock value.
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