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View Poll Results: Guys, even though your in a relationship, do you still want to have sex with other women?
All the time! 13 24.07%
Often 4 7.41%
Sometimes 14 25.93%
hardly ever 4 7.41%
Never!!! 12 22.22%
I cant answer becuase my SO might read 1 1.85%
Other 0 0%
Lemme View 6 11.11%
Voters: 54. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 07-22-2009, 10:30 AM
 
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Yes, just because we are involved, doesn't mean we stop having sexual desires. Some of us just choose not to act because that is our commitment.
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:54 AM
 
Location: Pinellas Park, FL
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Yes, just because we are involved, doesn't mean we stop having sexual desires. Some of us just choose not to act because that is our commitment.
he just says it is because he wants different trim.
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Old 07-22-2009, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Bronx, NY
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Of course they do... Good God! There men/ guys! EASY!
This applies to the women too.. It is not just the men that are like this.
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Old 07-22-2009, 11:04 AM
 
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I'm a bit skeptical of the guys who say never.

In my experience, every guy I have ever met, unless they are crazy religious, has found a girl other than his SO attractive
LOL. Way to put down the religious guys.
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:08 PM
 
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LOL at "I cant answer becuase my SO might read"
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Old 07-22-2009, 02:25 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Hmm, want to? The thought might pass through my mind. But I would never act on it. I would not spend a lot of time fantasizing about another person if I am in a relationship.
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:13 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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As a girl i dont see any man that doesnt think about having sex when they see another female if they are attractive. Even if its only for a sec. Women in relationships should'nt care about it, because its not like women dont ever think that either. I've never personaly thought about having sex with anyone then the one im with but i do know when i see a hot guy and dont have a problem saying it in front of any of my friends. I wont make my bf feel weird and do it around him though. But the sex part i never think about besides my bf. But at my age men have a higher sex drive whos to say i wont when im older.
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Old 07-22-2009, 08:23 PM
 
Location: CA
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"Wanting" is just waiting for the right opportunity (not to get caught, etc). If you continue to think about it, then you'll do it at some point, IMO.

There's a line between finding someone attractive and actively wanting to have sex with them.
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Old 07-22-2009, 09:45 PM
 
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I'm okay with a guy I'm with , looking at a female he likes and having the "impulse" to have his way with her. So long as thats all it is. If he is actively fantasizing about her or gets into discussions about it with his buddies regarding female parts and such, then I would be hurt.I also won't like that I am being intimate with him and he calls out someone else's name. I'd be like wtf?
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Old 07-23-2009, 06:47 AM
 
Location: Pinellas Park, FL
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[quote=orangeapple;9901066]"Wanting" is just waiting for the right opportunity (not to get caught, etc). If you continue to think about it, then you'll do it at some point, IMO.

Yes that is how I feel about it - I say there is a line between fantasy and wanting as at some point that want will turn into action.
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