For the guys in a relationship: a S E X question!!! (man, older)
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I think the operative word in the OP's question is "want." Yes, we still want things, but once you are committed, other things are higher on the list of wants. I value (or want) the things that a long term relationship offers in addition to the sex.
IMO wanting is what adds value to what we already have.
For instance what about a thread asking women , If they were in a committed relationship and a very rich man asked you to leave your husband and marry him, would you want to do it?
BTW I have a good friend who's long time wife did this exact thing
Most women are too insecure with themselves to get it. My thoughts are thus: if he looks and finds someone he likes better than me, and leaves me for her, he isn't a good fit for me anyway and better off that he leaves. However, if he enjoys the scenery and yet STILL comes home to me and shows me love and attention, then he really loves me, and deserves to be with me. And for the record, I don't have any problem with him looking at porn, either.
In my experience, every guy I have ever met, unless they are crazy religious, has found a girl other than his SO attractive and thought- hmmm, wouldnt that be fun....
Doesn't mean they would act on it, but they do have the desire.
I guess it is how we define "want". I was one of those who recorded never, and I meant it. The last thing I want to do is cheat on my wife. Have I ever looked at another woman and thought about it? Yeh, but I don't think that means I've wanted it.
Most women are too insecure with themselves to get it. My thoughts are thus: if he looks and finds someone he likes better than me, and leaves me for her, he isn't a good fit for me anyway and better off that he leaves. However, if he enjoys the scenery and yet STILL comes home to me and shows me love and attention, then he really loves me, and deserves to be with me. And for the record, I don't have any problem with him looking at porn, either.
I wish I could just see that. We would be so much happier. The thing that gets me the most is the activity with rosie.
I wish I could just see that. We would be so much happier. The thing that gets me the most is the activity with rosie.
Is that a euphemism for masturbation? If so, that's normal for men and has no reflection on his love or desire for you, unless he is actively avoiding intimacy with you. It's like a woman reading a romance novel -- it's pleasurable and distracting from the stress of everyday life, but it doesn't mean you are tired of your man just because the handsome pirate between the pages is sweeping you off your feet.
Guys, even though your in a relationship, do you still want to have sex with other women?
Doesn't mean you do, but do you want to? Even occasionally?
Never cheated, never will. Doesn't mean I don't occasionally see a waitress or gal at the store etc. and think....mmmmmmmm.....we'd get along just fine.
My gf is the same way....heck, she is probably more of a dog than me in that regard. lol.
Asking if we think about it is going to trap a lot of men. Instead, ask how detailed the thought goes. If a good looking chick is in front of me and she drops something and bends over to pick it up...well, I might get that quick thought in my mind. But it's usually gone as soon as she stands up. Plus, there's no real thought involved. I'm not thinking, 'Oh, what if I slide up behind her, embrace her, reach my hands around and...' No, i might think about the actual act briefly and then the thought is gone.
Is that a euphemism for masturbation? If so, that's normal for men and has no reflection on his love or desire for you, unless he is actively avoiding intimacy with you. It's like a woman reading a romance novel -- it's pleasurable and distracting from the stress of everyday life, but it doesn't mean you are tired of your man just because the handsome pirate between the pages is sweeping you off your feet.
I guess it is because of the other women he looks at... why can't he just do it with me? I'm more than willing.
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And for the record, I don't have any problem with him looking at porn, either.
