No ladies, it's not ok to look at or flirt with other guys when you are in a relationship (women, sex)
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No ladies, it's not OK for you to look at or flirt with other guys when you are in a relationship, but it's totally forgivable for guys to do so.
No, it's not double standard. It is to recognize the difference between guys and girls.
If you disagree with this point, you really need to understand how human interact with each other. If you cannot understand, please just keep in your mind and try to observe and learn.
Here are some facts that most of you (girls) don't get:
1. Guys always want sex and most of us run around like a dog but hardly get any.
2. Most women are not as sl*tty as you may think. There are such women but most women are as decent and self-respecting as you are. When a dirty looking dog runs up to them, you should be happy the dog does not get beaten up or shot.
3. When you check out or flirt with other guys, you may THINK it's innocent but those guys would think:"Finally someone wants to have sex with me!!!" Pathetic, yes, but true.
4. When guys check out or flirt with other girls, the girls would think:"here comes another dirty dog. How do I get rid of him?" The guys would think:" I hope I don't get shot again!"
5. The most important fact is that when your SO sees you doing that, his mind would go :"Holy crap!!! She wants to sleep with that guy and that guy will get it!!!!"
The life is hard for guys as the way it is (see point 1). Please don't make it even harder by looking at other guys or flirting with other guys when you have NO intention to sleep with them.
It's not ethical, moral, innocent, or funny.
Last edited by TheStupid; 03-16-2010 at 08:24 AM..
Hey stupid, maybe you should consider strapping blinders to her head? Be sure to duct tape her mouth, just in case. We've all seen how upset you get when it doesn't put the lotion on the skin.
^^^^ agree entirely. If you are so insecure about your SO then you should get over it. If what you have is a sincere relationship, jealosy of such minor things does not build trust.
If your relationship is good, what you consider "flirting" may just be that they are being kind, attentive, and interested in what others are saying and you are misinterpreting signals, BECAUSE YOU WANT TO.
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