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Old 10-10-2013, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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So I met a hottie recently who i've been talking to quite a bit lately. It may develop into a potential friends with benefits but for now we are just enjoying each other's company and hanging out. Well anyway, while having an honest "unfiltered" conversation, I was asking her about first impression and she said after talking to me for a bit she knew I was a horndog and was "fairly sexually experienced" --even though up to that point we just exchanged pleasantries and small talk, hadn't hit on her, didn't talk about past relationships, etc.

Honestly, as a woman, can you tell whether a man is a virgin, has some experience, or has had numerous partners? or is it something like if a guy is hot or has very good conversation skills, you just assume he must have no problem getting laid?

Just curious about feminine instinct re potential mates. And please, don't high jack the thread and talk about feminine instincts and creeps, rapists, killers, etc. This is about a man's sexual energy and a woman's ability to "read" a man. Or perhaps this topic is too esoteric and subjective.

idk, but thanks for your feedback in advance.
No "female" instinct is needed.

You talk about this "hottie" who, if everything goes as you hope, you will end up in a FWB situation with. Mind, you you're not thinking about her becoming your girlfriend. Hell, why would anyone want that? FWB is the ideal, as far as you're concerned.

Uh, yeah, I'd say anyone who listened to you for about 30 seconds could probably tell you're a horndog.
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Old 10-10-2013, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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A lady friend came to our picnic and she was quite interested in conversing with the people in our group. We had about 4 or 5 picnic tables and were eating while joking and having a good time. My lady friend asked me to introduce her to a good buddy of mine.

So I walked over to his picnic table and asked him to join our group, which he did. My lady friend was rather far away and asked me to bring her a hamburger from the grill. When I came back she was next to my buddy. She complained about facing the sun when I came back.

My buddy talked to her for quite a while and the picnic slowly ended. Everybody parted on good terms. When final farewells were given my buddy could not remember my lady finds name, nodded, and avoided saying goodbye.

My lady friend calmly smiled and we all departed. She emailed me later that week and told me that she had never been so insulted mentioning that her name was not remembered. However none of her displeasure was apparent at the picnic where she had the composure of a saint. Can you explain what happened during this particular incident at the picnic ?
What needs explaining?
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Old 10-11-2013, 12:49 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Always allow people to think what they want of you, until you tire of it.
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Old 10-11-2013, 03:07 AM
 
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A lady friend came to our picnic and she was quite interested in conversing with the people in our group. We had about 4 or 5 picnic tables and were eating while joking and having a good time. My lady friend asked me to introduce her to a good buddy of mine.

So I walked over to his picnic table and asked him to join our group, which he did. My lady friend was rather far away and asked me to bring her a hamburger from the grill. When I came back she was next to my buddy. She complained about facing the sun when I came back.

My buddy talked to her for quite a while and the picnic slowly ended. Everybody parted on good terms. When final farewells were given my buddy could not remember my lady finds name, nodded, and avoided saying goodbye.

My lady friend calmly smiled and we all departed. She emailed me later that week and told me that she had never been so insulted mentioning that her name was not remembered. However none of her displeasure was apparent at the picnic where she had the composure of a saint. Can you explain what happened during this particular incident at the picnic ?
mulva?

deloris?


it wasnt apparent that he couldnt remember her name, til they parted...

she could also just be saying this, to let you know she wont see him again,,,even if this wasnt the only, or real reason
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Old 10-11-2013, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Chicago area
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Dewdrop:
My lady friend is still interested in my buddy and asked me to set up another social event which included him and to bring her along as my date. She asked me to keep this as "our secret".

Your comment of "what needs explaining" was a question answered with a question which was not very clear to me.
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Old 10-11-2013, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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I can relate. My current girlfriend was texting me while I was partying in Vegas. This was before we ever got together. We were both drunk and flirting through text and she told me that she got this vibe from me that I was aggressive in bed and would know what to do with her.

We started getting physical the night I landed and the rest is history.
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Old 10-11-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: socal baby
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No "female" instinct is needed.

You talk about this "hottie" who, if everything goes as you hope, you will end up in a FWB situation with. Mind, you you're not thinking about her becoming your girlfriend. Hell, why would anyone want that? FWB is the ideal, as far as you're concerned.

Uh, yeah, I'd say anyone who listened to you for about 30 seconds could probably tell you're a horndog.

dude, seriously? what is your deal? have you ever been in a locker room or guys suana? the rule is you don't talk about other guys d*cks, whether big or small, or as in this case, how they use it. that's guy code and wierdo masculine behavior to do otherwise.

i can never understand why some guys want to hate on other guys just because how they get their laid or who they date/marry. short of anything illegal, each guy has a biological right to use his pecker as he sees fit to get his nut. And the last thing a guy needs is commentary from an other dude about how his d*ck and how he uses it. if he is stuck married to a fat monster of a woman, that's his problem and apparently it meets his needs or he has rogered up to accepting his station in life. no way, not me but i'm not gonna call him a loser. i don't care cuz it's not me.

turn in your man card or mind your own f-inn business and p*ssy.

ps: the thread was about female intuition, not my personal indiscretions
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Old 10-11-2013, 07:20 PM
 
Location: HI, U.S.A.
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I think that we don't really know if all "females" have this "feminine instinct" or any thing "feminine" to begin with and we would be foolish to assume that all "females" or even just a person because they happen to be "female" do.~
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