Women Reading Guys, Feminine Instinct (dates, how to, divorce, social)
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my friend says she is just a good judge of character and is very perception when it comes to reading ppl. so, yeah, i guess it could be a hidden talent or possible ESP. haha, old school word
When I just feel something about the guy, and it's not like I'm thinking or choosing these thoughts as they come along.
That feeling that you get about people is like those pop up ads you get from visiting random internet websites you stumble across.. it's not like women actively seek them out or purposely pre-determine..
Sorta just hits you like a ton of bricks like a wave of emotions you don't want to feel keeps knockin at your door.. and your just like "benefit of the doubts, benefit of the doubt" and then "aha! no wonder!"
Never put any stock in body language. I can't be read. I generally am expressionless, with head up and facing the direction I am heading (especially when wearing my cameras and gear). They're more than likely not going to be interested anyway, at least I can leave them confused.
I'm pretty good at reading guys, but it took me about 20 years to realize it. It's about getting past what they're saying and keying into their body language. Still, sometimes what I WANT to be true or what I FEAR (remnants of low self-esteem) is true gets in the way of that interpretation. I realized 15 years after the fact that my high school crushes all reciprocated my feelings to a certain degree, even though back then I thought there was no possibility of anything ever brewing between us. Doh. I've come to realize that if I get hung up on a guy, it's generally because there's some sort of mutual attraction.
But a guy's level of experience or approach to dating, yeah, I can generally tell before we ever start talking about sex or past relationships. It's kind of an instinctual thing, but I think I'm picking up on body language and confidence levels mainly. Words, I've come to realize, don't mean much.
Honestly, as a woman, can you tell whether a man is a virgin, has some experience, or has had numerous partners? or is it something like if a guy is hot or has very good conversation skills, you just assume he must have no problem getting laid?
I think a lot of the time, "gut feelings" and "intuition" can be chalked up to coincidence or selective memory. It's not like you can usually poll the people you assess--especially about their sex lives--so a "hunch" is not typically verifiable.
She could probably tell you found her attractive despite not hitting on her (talking easily, making eye contact, smiling, nodding, mimicked mannerisms, stuff like that). If you are relatively attractive and talk to women easily, it's an easy guess that you enjoy the ladies. It might not be the right guess, but it's not a stretch. "Hanging out" and "unfiltered conversation" can play a part too, depending on what that means.
Women have this uncanny 6th sense like ability to know whether or not a guy is getting laid alot and has options
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