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Old 11-17-2016, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Hyde Park, Los Angeles
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Why do women go for (insert archetype here) guy?

I'm going to ask you like I ask every dude on here who makes these types of threads...

Do you know every woman on this earth to even pose such a question? No, you don't.
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Old 11-17-2016, 06:36 PM
 
Location: NYC
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This is not what "women" do. Dysfunctional women do this, not the emotionally healthy ones who didn't grow up in abusive, manipulative environments.





This is what emotionally healthy women already do.




No, "women" do not do this. Only the dysfunctional, messed up ones who would do well to fix their issues with therapy.
lol well thanks for breaking down what I wrote and when I say "women" I'm not referring to every female, it applies to the one's that fall under these circumstances. As for what you said, you are correct however not every confused woman or man is dysfunctional. Sometimes people need to experience what it's like to be with a person who doesn't fit their long term needs. We are all constantly learning and making mistakes Just a Guy, it has nothing to do with being "dysfunctional". Viewing life like this would imply that everyone on this site is messed up in some way or form because we all joined up so we may find guidance from our peers which includes yourself.
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Old 11-17-2016, 11:18 PM
 
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Why do women go for (insert archetype here) guy?

I'm going to ask you like I ask every dude on here who makes these types of threads...

Do you know every woman on this earth to even pose such a question? No, you don't.
You spend your day typing out this same answer to all 'Why do men go for...' 'Why do women go for...'

Might be the biggest waste of time I've ever heard of.
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Old 11-20-2016, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Hyde Park, Los Angeles
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You spend your day typing out this same answer to all 'Why do men go for...' 'Why do women go for...'

Might be the biggest waste of time I've ever heard of.
Not really, because I'm not on here much. But back on topic...

Women are attracted to whoever tickles their fancy. It varies.
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Old 11-20-2016, 03:07 PM
 
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Guys who can attract women without much communication, really have no need to communicate. It just might ruin a good situation. Since women are already favorably disposed to them, they interpret this silence favorably.

The rest of men who cannot attract women this way have to resort to other approaches. Unfortunately, if they use verbal communication, this usually doesn't work in their favor. Since women aren't initially favorably disposed to them, they interpret everything thyy say through the filter of this initial impression. This means, whenever they say something that can be taken two ways, the unfavorable interpretation is most likely to be made.

They then wonder why they marry a guy who not only can't communicate but really has no interest in hearing what they have to say.

I realize that this doesn't always happen - only most of the time.
I'd say this is fairly accurate.
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