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The other night, I met this 29 year old on OKCupid. Has some really tasteful tattoos, and its kinda artsy. I am 24.
We go to a bar/restaurant, semi fancy, at 11pm.
We get some drinks and food, split the bill.
Conversation was great, a lot of flirting, talking, touching, laughing etc. She even asked me, "so what are you doing later tonight?" (i assumed she wanted to bone, since it was already 11pm).
I walk her back to her place. Use the "can I use your restroom" excuse (even though I really did have to). Take a ****, she shows me around her apt, we start making out.
Made out for a few mintues, then I tried to advance things, and she laughed and said "I think I want to take it slow."
I said okay, we talked for a bit more, I kissed her on the cheek and left.
She texts me saying she had a good time, but just wants to be friends.
What?
Was my kissing subpar? Women be crazy? Something else?
I walk her back to her place. Use the "can I use your restroom" excuse (even though I really did have to). Take a ****, she shows me around her apt, we start making out.
Um, are you sure you didn't stink up her bathroom, not wipe properly or have any lingering smell?
I once went out with a guy that after using the bathroom, smelled horrible. Just throwing that out there.
That really is often it. It doesn't have to be something more elaborate, it doesn't mean you did anything wrong or need to change or improve. Sometimes the connection just isn't there and it isn't anyone's fault, it just IS.
A lot of people change their mind when a situation they previously were into is actually presented to them.
Maybe she was into you, then when you left she remembered things that you did that were major turn offs that she didn't quite realize at the time. I know I've gone on dates that seemed great, but when I got home and re-analyzed the date I realized it just wasn't going to work.
That really is often it. It doesn't have to be something more elaborate, it doesn't mean you did anything wrong or need to change or improve. Sometimes the connection just isn't there and it isn't anyone's fault, it just IS.
Probably cause you took a crap in her bathroom on the first date. I never took a dump near my girlfriend till she came my wife.
oh, never mind.-just saw those posts.
Maybe cause you didn't lift the seat?????
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